Commentary: Wired differently on purpose, for a purpose

Growing up in the church, I learned early that God does, in fact, love me. I gave my life to Christ early in life. But I didn’t quite understand yet why God made me so “out of the box.” And it would be a longer journey of learning to appreciate who and what God made me to be.

Ever since boyhood, I always felt different. Everything from the way I acted, the way I thought and the way I interacted with my own peers felt unusual. The mental balancing act, along with the social and emotional cues I had to keep up with, were enough to make me miserable at the end of the day.

Different

Growing up in the 1990s in East Dallas, I lived life like a seemingly regular kid. I loved my cartoons, comic books and video games. But I also had an interest in drawing comics, writing, newspapers, TV newscasts, TV broadcast graphics, news music themes and meteorology.

But when it came to other kids, there were some glaring differences in the ways I learned and interacted with information and with the world around me.

My peers were into pop culture. I was into current events.

My peers were into playground stuff. I was thinking about the future.

The differences I felt became painful, even a place of self-hatred.

I struggled into my adulthood with the question that hung over me like a cloud: “What’s wrong with me?”

Staying focused throughout a sermon at church was difficult, unless I was taking notes. The intense, yet melodic sounds of worship within my church were so loud, I intently sat as far away from loudspeakers as possible.

The older I got, the harder I worked to improve my understanding and communication skills as I went on to college. But I still felt like something was very wrong with me. Connecting with humans still felt foreign.

Learning about myself

Years later, my wife suggested I see a counselor. Those sessions later turned into tests. At age 37, I was late-diagnosed with ADHD and autism spectrum disorder. Everything started making sense.

The visits led to me “hyperfocusing,” which is an ADHD thing, on the topic for months, learning how ADHD had two subtypes—inattentive and hyperactive—and how some individuals have both. I began to understand my type—inattentive. The diagnosis explained my impulsivity, my emotions and my inability to focus on one thing.

As for autism, that explained my sensitivity to a variety of sounds, tastes, smells and touch. It also explained why I loved watching certain cartoons, comics and comic strips, local TV news, and old TV sitcoms. I used them to help me understand how to communicate with people.

Gifted and called

As I got involved in ministry, my ability to pick up on certain things within the church from worship services to organizational matters within the fellowship made me a better servant leader.

I’m very particular about details when preparing Bible studies and sermons. I can be creative in how I serve within the church and outside the four walls. I enjoy keeping things in order and organized … when I can, that is.

The Lord called me into ministry, writing and cartooning within the same year. It was 2005 when I got back into drawing again, focused more on my writing and learned the craft of writing a sermon.

As the years passed, the Lord would use my gifts and experiences to be able to advocate for autistic individuals and those with ADHD, as well as others who are marginalized and underrepresented. I speak out using my comics, articles and stories to convey a message that brings attention to an issue, as well as to share the gospel.

A number of years passed before I realized “nothing was wrong with me.” It took a lot of prayer and a lot of time to process what I didn’t know about myself. But I also saw myself in Christ.

Advocacy

One of the things you may hear from individuals with ADHD and autism is they often feel misunderstood. We can relate most to Christ in the sense that even those closest to him misunderstood him.

But the Christian walk for a person with ADHD and autism isn’t always easy. I find myself wrestling with issues I’m sensitive to, like injustice. I do find myself wrestling daily with the fact there are some things that only make sense to God, not to me. And faith has to take the place of my desire to want certain things a specific way.

Discovering my neurodivergence also led me to be more compassionate toward others and to not be so hard on myself.

Other individuals with ADHD and autism have their own unique struggles. Autism is, in fact, a spectrum. So, lived experiences will vary.

The Lord used my late-diagnosis to show me how much he was able to do in and through me before I even had access to accommodations. He had enough grace and mercy to provide me with the resources I would need as life got more challenging.

Certainly, it would’ve been helpful to have a diagnosis when I was growing up, but I think the Lord showed me how important it was to advocate for others like me, especially those who need community and medical support now.

Celebrate

The unique, diverse gifts and talents that come from neurodivergent individuals are inexhaustible and always should be valued. They have a place in the kingdom of God, and they have a place in the body of Christ.

That’s why, when I go to events to speak and present, I tell people, especially those who are neurodivergent, they are “wired differently on purpose, for a purpose!”

Kendall Lyons is a writer, minister and cartoonist who publishes on his Substack page Kendall’s Comics. He is also the illustrator of Your Identity in Christ: Finding Who You Are in Who He Is by David Sanchez. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.




Commentary: 6 reasons worship attendees aren’t group participants

What percentage of your church’s worship service attendance typically attend an ongoing Bible study group? And what does group participation look like in an average church?

The data from the 2024 State of Groups study by Lifeway Research provides some interesting, and perhaps alarming, information.

Because ongoing Bible study groups are the environments in which people build long-term friendships with fellow congregants, study the Bible, pray and serve together, it’s important for group participation to be a solid percentage of worship attendance.

According to the State of Groups research, 67 percent of church leaders say half or less of adults in worship attend ongoing Bible study groups. For the average church with groups, 44 percent of worship attendees are also group participants. This could indicate some problems and opportunities in group ministries.

What’s a healthy percentage of group attendance relative to worship attendance? The gap should be somewhere around 30 percent. If a church’s gap is much lower than that, it could indicate the group ministry is “closed” rather than open to new people joining existing groups.

While some church leaders are proud of a small gap, the downside is the group ministry may not be as outwardly focused as it should be. It may be serving the congregation’s needs but not attracting new people. Churches with a gap of 25 percent to 30 percent of worship attendance have sufficient prospects to fuel group ministry.

What’s keeping adults from participating in ongoing groups?

There always will be a gap between worship and group attendance. But what causes adults to say “no” to weekly opportunities to connect to an adult group? There are at least six reasons adults are hesitant to make group life a priority.

1. Adults feel time-compressed.

Some adults believe they can get all they need spiritually and relationally by attending the worship service, so attending a group is not a tremendous need they feel. Some adults like to “do church in an hour,” so attending a worship service allows them to be efficient with their time. It’s a poor choice, though, to avoid attending a group.

2. Biblical hospitality may have been absent previously.

Most groups are not as friendly as they think they are. While they may be friendly toward one another, guests often experience something different. It’s not uncommon for a guest to enter a group for the first time and find it difficult to make conversation with group members.

It’s not that the group members are trying to be rude. They just aren’t sensitive to the awkwardness guests feel, so they carry on conversations with the people they know. This often leaves guests on the outside looking in. And when that happens, they vote with their feet and don’t make attending a group a priority.

3. Previous Bible study experiences were not engaging.

A pastor friend of mine in Texas once told me a visiting family refused to return to his church after their initial visit. They attended the church’s Bible study hour then the worship service. Because the adult group leader read verbatim from the leader guide, he didn’t draw people into active learning.

“It was so boring,” the husband and wife told the pastor.

The lack of engagement and excellence in the Bible study caused a family to decide to keep looking for a church home even before they experienced the church’s worship service.

4. They may not be familiar with their options.

Most churches list available Bible study groups on their website, and they likely have a brochure available at a guest information booth. These are certainly needed, but these are both passive ways to get information into the hands of guests.

In addition to these practices, it may be wise to send guests information about their group options via email or text messaging. Churches also may place a brochure about their group options in a gift bag, encouraging guests to take one home and choose a group to attend.

5. The pastor may not talk enough about group participation.

It could be your church isn’t saying enough about its discipleship pathway and the role groups play in it. There should be a regular cadence of invitations from the pulpit for guests—and chronically absent members—to be encouraged to get involved in an adult group.

If it’s important to the pastor, it’s important to the church. A pastoral emphasis on groups and encouragement to attend can go a long way in creating motion, moving people “out of rows and into circles.”

6. Invitations to attend a group aren’t being extended.

It’s one thing to extend an invitation from the pulpit to attend groups, and it’s something else entirely when congregants take ownership and do the inviting. The number one reason people attend a Bible study group is because of the invitation of a group leader or a member of the group.

Mind the gap

The British have an expression: “Mind the gap.” It’s announced at train stations throughout the United Kingdom. This refers to the gap between the train and the platform. They don’t want people’s heels getting caught in the gap, which would cause people to fall, twist an ankle or possibly do a faceplant.

Minding the gap is something churches of all sizes would benefit from—minding the gap between worship and group attendance.

With a few minor changes, churches can close the gap by calling attention to the church’s group ministry, explaining group options, encouraging attendance and making easy on-ramps for guests.

Ken Braddy is Lifeway’s director of Sunday school and regularly blogs at kenbraddy.com. This article first appeared on LifewayResearch.com and was republished by permission.




Commentary: Look for the light on a sea of darkness

Twice a week, I work at a second office. The early, before-rush-hour drive is relaxing. There are only a few vehicles on the road.

I usually drive in the slower lane so I can think a little. I’ve had a lot of good conversations with myself and God on these early morning drives.

Sometimes, my mind will default to thinking about what I just read in the news that morning, which usually is pretty negative. So, in order to keep my early morning thoughts open and positive, I have learned to avoid looking at the news before I leave for the office.

I have done some of my best thinking on these morning rides to work, similar to what others have said about getting their best ideas while in the shower, on the toilet or taking a walk.

Light in the darkness

The other day while I was driving, I began to think about faith. What is faith? Why faith? Some people say they have faith in a business venture but then proceed to fail.

The Bible speaks of walking by faith, not by sight. Some people say they have faith in a God of love, but live fairly selfish, self-centered lives.

Anyway, I was thinking like this while driving to work.

There were ominous black clouds overhead, and it looked like a storm was coming my way. I already could see rain pouring down out over the ocean.

While driving under this gathering gloomy darkness, a tiny pinhole opened in the thick black clouds, and a slender sunbeam pierced through the tiny hole and onto the dark ocean surface below. A small circle of ocean instantly lit up and sparkled.

That sunbeam was just gorgeous piercing the darkness, and the tiny spot of glistening ocean made me forget about the approaching storm and the rest of the ocean that lay in darkness.

I was so taken and captivated by the splendor of the tiny circle of light, I forgot about the darkness. The darkness was still there, but it didn’t affect my outlook anymore, because I was drawn to that sunbeam, that scintillating circle of light.

The light of the world

I couldn’t help but see this as a metaphor for the times we live in.

There is no end of the darkness, selfishness, gloom and doom in the news, in our world and in our lives.

But there is also that gorgeous, wonderful, enthralling beam and circle of light in Jesus—that gorgeous beam of beauty, kindness, love, tenderness and selflessness that pierces the darkness and changes the focus of our thinking and our lives.

So, although I didn’t finish the conversation with myself about faith, that momentary incident seemed like a partial answer: Focus on the good and positive, no matter how dark the world around us is. Focus on the beams of good and the acts of kindness, love and hope that pierce our darkness. Think on these things.

“Finally, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things” (Philippians 4:8).

Robert Ritzenhein, after retiring from full-time missionary service, lives in Japan, organizing Christian programs for area rest homes, and is the yearly Santa at his city’s hospitals. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.




Commentary: Giving is Christmas

For many people around the world, Christmas is the traditional time of giving to spouses, children and others we care about.

Christmas is also a time to give to the Bob Cratchits and Tiny Tims among us, making sure those going through tough financial times receive gifts and plenty of food for holiday meals, plus presents for the kids.

For Christians, all year—not just Christmas—is the time for giving.

For us, life on this earth is all about giving, because that’s what love does; it gives.

Jesus was a giver. It’s his character and nature, and when we step into a giving spirit, without thought of receiving, we step into God’s nature.

Giving releases God to work. John 3:16 and 1 John 3:16 are God’s bookend giving verses for Christian life.

To give is Christ

So many people these days focus primarily on themselves. To most people, Darwin’s “survival of the fittest” makes all the sense in the world. It’s the way of human nature, especially in uncertain and difficult times, when people tend to close ranks and circle the wagons around their immediate families, letting those outside the circle fend for themselves.

But it should not be so with us.

“Give and it shall be given to you” (Luke 6:38). Was that written only for times of plenty? Was God’s word given to us to follow only when the waters are calm and our lives’ little boats can glide effortlessly with a gentle breeze in the morning sun?

Jesus’ words were given as a guide through the good times as well as the bad.

The nature of Jesus is the opposite of our natural self-centered inclinations. “But seek first the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 6:33) and Christ’s nature first—which is always giving, always reaching out, always ready to save, serve and lift those who have been trodden under foot by the racing world around them.

Freely give

Whether we are well off financially or barely squeaking by, we all have something to give. Everything God gives us, every talent we possess was given to each of us to share, give and hand out freely. “Freely you have received; freely give” (Matthew 10:8).

Some say, “When I have a million dollars, then I’ll share and give,” but they could start giving what they have right now, even if it’s just a tiny bit.

To God, there is no difference between the little we have and won’t share, and the people who sit upon their piles of wealth and don’t share. The same rule applies to the poor as well as the rich.

And giving isn’t just about money or material things. It applies to any talent God has given us. Sowing seeds of love and words of encouragement don’t cost anything, but they can change a life, face someone to the positive light and give them hope.

Give as Jesus gave

Jesus gave us this key: “Do unto others as you want them to do unto you” (Matthew 7:12).

What does someone need? God is the giver, but we are his delivery staff, and he trusts us to deliver his love and supply to those in need. He came not to judge the world, but to save it (John 3:16-17). He came to give. The heart of God is a giving heart.

Let’s give from what we have right now, today. Let’s not wait until we have more, but let’s give from what we have today. Let’s give out our little loaves and fish today, and they will multiply.

Christmas is a wonderful time for giving, but so is every day of our lives. For true believers in Jesus, every day is Christmas. Every day we can sing, “Joy to the world, the Lord is come.” Every day we can share the good news, by living as Jesus lived, loving as Jesus loved and giving as Jesus gave.

“The smallest act of kindness is worth more than the grandest intention.”
–Oscar Wilde

“If you can’t feed a hundred people, feed just one.”
Mother Teresa

Robert Ritzenhein, after retiring from full-time missionary service, lives in Japan, organizing Christian programs for area rest homes, and is the yearly Santa at his city’s hospitals. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.




Commentary: Advent reflection: Joy amid suffering

As we light the fourth candle of Advent, we are reminded of the joy Christ brings—not a joy rooted in our circumstances, but in the unshakable truth that God is with us, Emmanuel.

In the Holy Land, where the weight of occupation and suffering presses on us daily, joy often can feel distant. Yet, Advent teaches us true joy is not the absence of hardship, but the presence of Christ—our hope and light—even in our worst times and moods.

Anchored joy

This joy is anchored in God’s promise. When the angel declared to the shepherds, “I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people” (Luke 2:10), it was not a promise of a magical life without suffering, but a declaration the Savior had come to dwell among us.

Christ brought light into our darkness. This joy does not erase our pain, but transforms it—filling our suffering with purpose and hope as we hold fast to Christ’s presence in every trial.

Resistant joy

In Palestine, joy is not merely an emotion; it is an act of resistance. It is woven into the fabric of our existence, even amid the oppression we face.

It shines in the laughter of children in Gaza and Bethlehem, who play despite the heavy burdens of conflict. It lives in communities that, even in scarcity, share their last piece of bread.

These acts of joy are not born out of nothing, but from defiance—a bold declaration the light of Christ never will be extinguished, no matter how dark the world becomes.

Generous joy

One of the most powerful symbols of joy in our land is St. Nicholas, the fourth-century bishop whose legacy is deeply cherished in Beit Jala, a Palestinian Christian town near Bethlehem.

St. Nicholas (Mar Nicola) is the town’s patron saint—a protector, miracle worker and living example of sacrificial love. His feast day is celebrated with prayers, processions and public festivities, honoring him not as a myth, but as a real man whose life of generosity brought joy, hope and healing to countless people.

The St. Nicholas Church in Beit Jala, built over the cave where he lived and prayed, stands as a testament to his legacy of love, kindness and generosity, drawing believers from around the world. This legacy endures in the figure of Santa Claus, whose spirit is rooted in St. Nicholas’ life of sacrificial giving.

While commercialized over time, Santa’s Christian values of kindness, generosity and selflessness continue to inspire and guide us.

Choose joy

As we reflect on the joy Christ brings this Advent, we are reminded joy is not simply an emotion, it is a choice. True joy is not found in the absence of suffering or in receiving, but in choosing faith over fear, in giving and in trusting God’s presence is more than enough.

Even in our deepest pain, we can choose joy, knowing Christ is with us and never will leave us.

This joy also is rooted in hope. As we await Christ’s return, we are filled with joy not only for his first coming, but also for the fullness of his promise—a future where suffering, pain and tears will be no more. Until that day comes, we live in the joy of knowing Christ is with us now and will return to make all things new.

Prayer of joy

Lord, we thank you for the joy that flows from knowing you are with us. Help us to find joy even in our struggles and to trust you are working all things together for our good. May your joy fill our hearts and overflow into the lives of those around us, bringing hope and light to a dark world.

We pray for our brothers and sisters in Jerusalem, the United States, Lebanon, Armenia, Ukraine, Syria, Sudan and all who suffer. Strengthen us to be a light in the world. We pray for the coming of your kingdom, where joy, peace and justice reign. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Christ is born! Let us glorify him!

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Jack Nassar is a Christian in Ramallah, Palestine, who strives to foster positive change in the public, private, nonprofit and academic realms. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.




Commentary: Advent reflection: Love amid brokenness

As we light the third candle of Advent, we are reminded of God’s love—a love that is unconditional, boundless and unchanging.

For Palestinian Christians, this love sustains us through the daily struggles of living in a land marked by occupation, violence, apartheid and division. Amid the wounds of our land and the suffering of our people, God’s love serves as our anchor, offering a deeper hope in the face of despair.

This love is not just for those who live in Palestine, but for anyone whose heart is broken—whether by fractured relationships, financial struggles, personal pain or the loss of a loved one. It is a love that heals and renews.

Saving love

The story of Christ’s birth is the story of love. In his infinite love, God chose to enter our world not as a king in a palace, but as a helpless child, born to a poor family in a humble town under occupation.

His coming was not a display of power, but an act of self-giving love, one that would ultimately lead him to the cross. Jesus’ love for us was not abstract. It was real, tangible and sacrificial. It was a love that endured suffering and death so the world might be saved.

Active love

For us, love is not just an emotion; it is an action. Love is shown in the daily decisions we make to care for our neighbors, support the suffering and offer compassion in the face of adversity.

In Palestine, love is found in small, sacrificial moments: the hand extended to a stranger, the forgiveness offered to those who have wronged us, and the quiet sacrifices made for others.

It is seen in Gaza, where widows continue to care for their children despite the danger, in churches that remain open for worship despite the ongoing genocide, and in communities that hold one another up when all hope seems lost.

Love is also seen in families who choose forgiveness over division and in individuals who hold on to hope amid overwhelming hardship.

Unified love

For the past few decades, Palestinian Christians from all denominations across the Holy Land—except in a few places like Jerusalem, Bethlehem and Nazareth—have united in celebrating Christmas on Dec. 25, according to the Gregorian calendar, while Oriental and Orthodox Christians celebrate Christmas on Jan. 7 and Easter according to the Julian (Eastern) calendar.

Despite denominational differences, this shared practice sends a powerful message of unity to our religious leaders, the global church and to the world. It reminds us that, as Christians, we are stronger together.

Our unity is not merely a social bond, but a unified witness to the love of Jesus. What unites us in Christ is far greater than what divides us. Let us pray and work for true global Christian unity.

Choose love

Love also is seen in how we honor our faith, heritage and land. We love our homeland not because it is perfect, but because it is where God has placed us.

Our land, despite its suffering, is where we continue to find God’s presence. We hold on to the hope that one day, God will bring peace and justice, and that his love will heal the wounds inflicted by years of conflict, hatred and occupation.

As we reflect on Christ’s love for us this Advent, we are called to share that love with others. Love is not just a feeling; it is a choice. It is a decision to put the needs of others before our own, to reach out to those who are suffering and to stand with the oppressed.

As we await the birth of Christ, let us pray for the strength to love as he loved—sacrificially, generously and without condition.

Prayer of love

Lord, we thank you for your constant, unchanging love. Help us to love others as you have loved us, especially those who are difficult to love. May your love fill our hearts and overflow into our actions, bringing healing and reconciliation to our broken hearts and world.

We pray for the people of Jerusalem, the United States, Ukraine, Syria, Lebanon, Armenia and for all who suffer. We lift up families torn apart by conflict, those facing financial hardship and all who long for healing.

May your love bring peace, justice and restoration to our world. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Christ is born! Let us glorify him!

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Jack Nassar is a Christian in Ramallah, Palestine, who strives to foster positive change in the public, private, nonprofit and academic realms. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.




Commentary: BSM taught me how to share my faith

“Stop whatever you’re doing. Let’s talk about this now.”

I felt a deep sense of urgency when I learned my Christian coworkers did not know how to share the gospel. What if, on the way home that day, someone asked them how to follow Jesus?

Struck by the gravity of the situation, I asked my colleagues to stop everything else, so we could discuss how to talk to others about Jesus. These believers needed to know how to share Christ.

Thankfully, my experience with the Baptist Student Ministry prepared me for such a time as this.

I served with the BSM throughout my time in college. After graduation, I served the BSM for seven years as a staff member. While I intended to equip college students for the work of ministry, it turned out the ministry experience equipped me as well.

Three Circles

Another colleague, who already had a lot of evangelism experience, recently had learned the Three Circles method. Together, he and I walked our coworkers through this visual tool that provides an overview of the good news about Jesus, beginning with finding common ground with the person in front of you.

Circle one

Most people will agree we live in a world characterized by brokenness—the first circle. We all experience the world is not as it should be. On a macro scale, we have natural disasters, wars, pandemics. On a personal level, we experience relational strife, divorce, death of loved ones and mental health crises.

Christian or not, enduring the world’s brokenness feels relatable. People try to escape from this circle of brokenness by a variety of means—relationships, drugs and alcohol, even religious activities or doing good deeds. But ultimately, none of these self-resourced attempts fix the brokenness or satisfy the longing in our hearts for something greater.

Circle two

We feel this way, because originally, God had a good design—another circle—in which the first humans experienced perfect relationship with him preceding the brokenness. Humanity was intended for this loving, intimate fellowship with God, to know him and walk with him.

But Adam and Eve rebelled against him—as has every person since. As a result, we experience brokenness in relating to God, to ourselves and to others. But it doesn’t have to stay this way.

God made a way for us to leave the vicious cycle of brokenness. Enter Jesus.

Circle three

In this final circle, we explain that Jesus—fully man and fully God—was born of a virgin, lived the perfect life none of us have lived, and died the death we deserve for turning away from God. We call our falling short of God’s standard “sin.”

An aside: It helps to explain Christian jargon, so we never assume someone has familiarity with all the lingo.

What we earn for our sin is death—separation from God—but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus (Romans 6:23).

After Jesus died on the cross, he rose from the dead.

Full circle

Because Jesus was resurrected, we also can have new life when we follow him. He transforms our eternity, as well as our life right now. When we trust in him, we finally can exit the cycle of brokenness and experience God’s good design for relationship with him.

This takes us back to the circle of God’s good design. Flowing from the security of our relationship with him, we are sent back into the world of brokenness to tell others about Jesus.

The circles at work

Katherine, one of our colleagues, put the Three Circles method to good use in a real conversation at the Texas State Fair this year.

My other coworkers and I partnered with a professor who allowed us to work an evangelism booth to engage in interactions with unbelievers. One individual stopped by the booth, and Katherine turned her conversation with him toward spiritual matters.

She found out his aura was important to him. When it was her turn to share something important to her, she utilized the Three Circles technique to share the gospel. Prepared with the diagram drawn out on notecards, she talked through the story of Jesus rescuing the world from brokenness.

He responded as though familiar with the story, but nevertheless, he heard the gospel, and Katherine had the opportunity to articulate it.

More evangelism methods

Over the months that followed, my coworkers and I continued walking through methods of sharing the gospel, such as the Romans Road and the Bridge Illustration. We discussed methods of discipleship to help fellow believers grow spiritually, shared stories of real-life interactions and prayed for the unbelievers in our lives.

I am deeply grateful to BSM for the ministry experience it afforded me. BSM staff members entrusted me with ministry beyond what I believed myself able—or willing—to do, but because others challenged me, I grew in my skills as a minister.

I watched the same transformation happen to my college students over the years, as they entered the university as uncertain freshmen and graduated competent disciples of Jesus. I loved experiencing a similar phenomenon with my coworkers, who initially confessed their uncertainty, but—with a willingness to learn—grew in their ability to share the good news of Jesus with others.

Do you believe in Jesus? If so, you have a story to tell, as well. How will you tell it, and will you tell it to someone today?

Kasey Olander served with the Baptist Student Ministry at the University of Texas at Dallas and Rice University, focusing on discipleship and evangelism training. She and her husband are seminary students and members of The Village Church. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.




Commentary: Advent Reflection: Peace amid conflict

As we light the second candle of Advent, we are reminded of the peace Christ offers—a peace that surpasses understanding and remains steadfast, even in the most turbulent times.

For those of us in the Holy Land, where occupation and oppression often overshadow joy, this peace can feel distant. Yet, it is in these darkest moments that Christ’s peace shines brightest—not as the absence of struggle, but as a presence that endures through it all.

Unlikely peace

We turn our hearts to the shepherds’ field in Beit Sahour, a Palestinian Christian town just outside Bethlehem, where angels proclaimed: “Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, goodwill toward men” (Luke 2:14).

In those same fields today, the sounds of joy often are drowned out by the violence of Israeli settler attacks, land confiscations, home demolitions and gunfire. Yet, the promise of peace remains. It is not a peace that erases suffering, but one that meets us in it, holding us in hope.

Active peace

For Palestinian Christians, peace is not passive. It is an active choice to trust in God’s presence, no matter how trying the circumstances.

We find peace in simple acts—prayers whispered in the night, children’s laughter amid the rubble of Gaza, shared meals where love defies fear and in churches that stand unbroken, testaments to centuries of faith. These acts declare peace is still possible, even when the world seems overwhelming.

In a land scarred by an apartheid wall, military occupation and ongoing violence, choosing peace requires courage. It means refusing to repay hate with hate or violence with violence. It means forgiving, even when it seems impossible, and loving when the world urges us to do the opposite.

Just as Christ forgave those who crucified him, we are called to forgive and to be peacemakers—even when the path is painful.

Living peace

We draw strength from Isaiah’s prophecy: “He will be called Prince of Peace” (Isaiah 9:6). The peace Jesus offers doesn’t promise a painless life, but assures us he is with us through it all. His abiding presence sustains us, even in desperate times.

In Palestine, peace is a living hope. It is found in the courage of a mother praying for her children’s safety, in a father planting seeds in soil scarred by war and in the unwavering faith of a community gathering for worship, even when bombs threaten to shatter the silence. These moments of grace remind us peace is still possible, even in the darkest of times.

Despite hardships, our love for Jesus remains unshaken. We hold him close, celebrating his birth three times a year in Bethlehem. First, on Dec. 25, by Eastern and Roman Catholics, Protestants and Evangelicals. Then, on Jan. 7, by Eastern and Oriental Orthodox Christians. Finally, on Jan. 19, by Palestinian Armenians.

This shared joy reminds us, despite differences and divisions, we are united in his peace. Let us pray for peace within our churches, among Christians, and for true Christian unity.

Waiting peace

This Advent, as we await the coming of the Prince of Peace, we are called to carry that peace into the world. While we cannot always change our circumstances, we can choose how we respond. We can choose peace—even when it seems impossible.

Let us remember: Peace begins in the heart. It is not merely the absence of war, but the presence of God’s love, justice and mercy in our lives. As we await Christ’s coming, let us pray for peace in our minds, hearts, families, homes, cities and nations. May we be peacemakers in a world in need of healing and reconciliation.

Prayer of peace

Lord, we thank you for being our Prince of Peace. In the midst of conflict, help us experience your peace that surpasses all understanding. May your peace reign in our hearts and overflow into our families and communities.

Give us the courage to be agents of peace, to forgive, to love and to seek justice for all. We pray for the peace of Jerusalem, the United States, Artsakh, Lebanon, Ukraine and Syria, and for all those suffering in conflict. We pray for the healing of our broken world. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Christ is born! Let us glorify him!

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Jack Nassar is a Christian in Ramallah, Palestine, who strives to foster positive change in the public, private, nonprofit and academic realms. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.

 




Commentary: Advent reflection: Hope amid struggles

As we light the first candle of Advent, our hearts are drawn to the little town of Bethlehem, the birthplace of our Lord Jesus Christ, where hope and peace broke through the darkness.

For Christians worldwide—and especially for those of us in the Holy Land—Christ’s birth is a profound reminder that God is with us, even in the most challenging times. In a land often marked by conflict, occupation and sorrow, his birth not only is the promise of salvation, but also a call to live with unwavering hope and faith.

The journey of hope

Advent invites us to reflect on Mary and Joseph’s journey. They traveled through a land under Roman occupation, facing hardship, uncertainty and exile, seeking refuge in a humble stable. Their trust in God’s plan continues to inspire us today.

Like Mary and Joseph, we also face trials—military checkpoints, the apartheid wall dividing our land and communities, and the constant threat of violence. Yet, as they found hope amid their struggles, we also find hope in the midst of our darkest circumstances.

The nature of hope

Hope is not passive or wishful thinking. It is a resilient, active faith that empowers us to endure.

In Palestine, hope is visible in the resilience of our people. We see it in the laughter of children playing in Gaza’s church courtyards, in hymns sung under curfew or bombardment, and in the olive trees we continue to plant on war-ravaged land.

These acts of life amid the rubble testify to God’s presence with us, reminding us even when the way forward is unclear, his light never will be extinguished.

The light of hope

Isaiah’s prophecy rings true this Advent: “The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light” (Isaiah 9:2).

Christ’s coming is that light, dispelling the darkness of the past and offering hope for the future. In a world filled with trials, we are called to be bearers of that light, bringing hope to those around us. This Advent, let us not wait passively, but act in hope, planting seeds of love, compassion and peace wherever we go.

The life of hope

For Palestinian Christians, Bethlehem is not just a historical site. It is where God’s promises remain alive. Every time the bells of the Church of the Nativity ring, they remind us Christ will return to fulfill his promises.

Hope is alive in us, empowering us to endure, rebuild and continue to love, even in the face of adversity. We live in this in-between time, holding fast to hope and knowing one day, God’s peace will be realized in fullness.

The gift of hope

In Palestine and across the East, we greet one another at Christmas with, “Christ is born!” and the response, “Hallelujah!” or “Let us glorify him!”

These words remind us Christ’s birth is not a commercial celebration or a distant historical event, but a living reality that calls us to glorify God in our lives—even amid hardship and war.

As we reflect on Advent’s significance, let us remember hope is a divine gift. Rooted in God’s unchanging love, it is not just for the future but for today. Alive in our hearts, hope urges us to stand with those who suffer and to be the living testimony of Christ’s light in a world that desperately needs it.

Prayer of hope

Lord, amid our struggles, we thank you for the light of Christ that shines brightly. Help us to walk in faith as Mary and Joseph did, trusting in your promises even in our trials. May the hope of Advent fill our hearts and guide our actions.

We pray for the peace of Jerusalem, the United States, Ukraine, Artsakh and the entire world, and for healing in our communities. Strengthen us to act with compassion, to stand with those who suffer and to plant seeds of peace in a broken world. In Jesus’ name, amen.

Christ is born! Let us glorify him!

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Jack Nassar is a Christian in Ramallah, Palestine, who strives to foster positive change in the public, private, nonprofit and academic realms. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.




Commentary: Love thy neighbor, not just thy ally

Many American Christians may see Mike Huckabee’s appointment as U.S. ambassador to Israel as a victory for their pro-Israel beliefs—perhaps even a fulfillment of biblical prophecy.

But as a Palestinian Christian, I urge you to pause and reflect: What does this moment truly mean for the faith we proclaim? For the justice and compassion Christ taught us? And, most urgently, for the lives of those of us who, like me, call this Holy Land home?

Political agendas disguised as Christian compassion

Too often, American Christian support for Israel seems to prioritize political loyalty over Christ’s compassion.

Leaders champion an unwavering defense of Israel, frequently overlooking its policies of occupation, apartheid and systemic oppression—all under the guise of “security” or “self-defense.” These policies favor one group, often at the expense of another, denying basic rights and protections to those who share this land.

What about the millions of Palestinians—many of them Christians—who also call this sacred land home? What about their pain, their stolen futures and their fading hope to live free of fear and humiliation? Their security? Their right to self-defense?

Consider the Kisiya family, Palestinian Christians from Beit Jala, near Bethlehem. For generations, they carefully tended their olive groves, a legacy passed down through the centuries. But one day, without warning, their land was seized to make way for an illegal Israeli settlement, built to house Zionist immigrants, perhaps even from Brooklyn or New York.

Overnight, the Kisiya family became strangers on their own soil, reduced to helpless spectators watching others reap what they had sown.

Every morning, the Kisiya family walks past their ancestral land. They cannot touch it, cultivate it or even set foot on it. What was once a symbol of their heritage and security is now a silent reminder of their dispossession.

To an outsider, it might seem like just a plot of land, but for the Kisiya family, it was their sanctuary, a connection to their ancestors and a promise to their children. Imagine the pain of standing on the edge of what is rightfully yours, knowing it has been taken from you—not just in property, but in identity, in history, in faith.

When faith becomes a weapon

Huckabee’s staunch defense of Israeli policies doesn’t just stop at support. It veers into justifying actions that many—including Jewish, Israeli, American, churches and human rights advocates—condemn as apartheid. These policies sustain a cycle of land theft, military occupation and unrelenting violence that has been entrenched for decades.

Take, for example, the Nasir family—another deeply rooted Christian family in the Christian town of Birzeit, near Ramallah in West Bank. For years, they were pillars of the community, helping to found Birzeit University.

One night, Israeli soldiers stormed their home. The stillness of their quiet evening was shattered by the sound of splintering doors, the sharp orders of soldiers and the sight of weapons in their faces.

In the chaos, 23-year-old Layan, barely awake, was dragged from her bed. Her cries were drowned out by the noise, and she was taken—kidnapped. Her family has not heard from her since.

Days stretch into months, and each day her family faces a new torment of unanswered questions: Where is she? Is she safe? Will she ever come home? The Nasirs’ home, once a sanctuary of learning and love, is now haunted by her absence.

Can we, as Christians, truly accept this?

Are we to be peacemakers only for those deemed “worthy” by political or racial standards, or are we to open our hearts to all who suffer, as Christ commanded? We may not agree on every issue, especially when it comes to politics, but surely, we can grieve together, mourn the loss of innocent lives, and commit ourselves to the work of true peace and justice.

This isn’t just about politics. It’s about people. It’s about the father forced to explain to his children why soldiers stormed their home. It’s about the mother silently mourning the disappearance of her daughter while trying to hold the family together.

It’s about the children of Gaza sifting through the rubble of their homes, searching for fragments of the lives they once knew. This is the human cost—the real, unmeasurable grief of families torn apart, homes destroyed, futures stolen.

The real human cost

When American Christians rally behind political figures like Huckabee without reckoning with the human cost, they risk betraying the very heart of the gospel. Jesus’s words in Matthew 25:40—“Whatever you did for the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me”—call us to a higher standard of love and mercy.

As Christians, supporting Israel should not mean disregarding the dignity, safety and humanity of others. Palestinian Christians, Samaritans, Muslims and others who share this land too often are silenced in the name of political loyalty.

Lorenzo Vargas, a communications expert, wisely said, “Nothing about us without us.”

We, Palestinian Christians, have lived in this land for millennia. Yet, in discussions about our future, our voices often are dismissed, and our struggles are minimized or ignored.

Misusing Scripture to justify oppression

It is painful to witness Scripture twisted to justify policies that cause harm. For Palestinians, the loss is more than physical. It is spiritual and emotional. It is a slow erasure of presence, hope and the right to dream of a better future.

Every family forced to leave their home, every church watching its congregation shrink as members are killed or flee, and every child growing up under the shadow of violence feels the profound and personal weight of this loss.

A call to action: Listen, reflect and act

The Bible tells us to “speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves” (Proverbs 31:8). This isn’t a call for convenience; it’s a call for courage. As Christians, supporting Israel should not mean turning a blind eye to the humanity and the suffering of Palestinians.

To my fellow believers, I say: Look beyond politics. Listen to the voices of those who are silenced. Palestinian Christians are not relics of history. We are living testimonies of faith, endurance and hope. We may be few, but our story is integral to the broader Christian witness.

When history remembers us, will it see the teachings of Christ in our actions? Or will it see a faith compromised by politics?

The choice is ours. Let us choose wisely.

Jack Nassar is a Christian in Ramallah, Palestine, who strives to foster positive change in the public, private, nonprofit and academic realms. The views expressed in this opinion article are those of the author.




Commentary: How churches can respond to child abuse

In my previous article, I discussed institutional abuse reform initiatives. However, the reality of church autonomy leaves local churches ultimately responsible for reform.

Background checks and interviews are a good start, but they are not enough to protect children from predators.

Churches are spaces that provide people access to children. The reality is 93 percent of abusers identify as religious. When one couples this statistic with the reality abusers are master manipulators, an abuser may not only be religious but may come across as spiritually mature.

Preliminary measures are a start, but securing accountability measures that apply to every church member is even better.

The Southern Baptist Convention’s Abuse Reform Implementation Task Force suggests a possibility that “25 percent of the average church congregation has likely experienced abuse.” The stakes are high.

As I tell each member who undergoes child care training, “we don’t do thorough screening and training because we are untrusting, but because we have been entrusted with the most precious commodity—children.” This is a doctrinal concern.

Doctrine vs. abuse

So how can we communicate to our congregations that abuse is a doctrinal concern? I have provided a list to start the conversation. What God says and what abuse says could not be further apart.

1. Anthropology:

• God says children are made in his image, fearfully and wonderfully made, loved by God.
• Abuse says children are sexual objects, punching bags, puppets to be controlled, a means to an end.

2. Christology:

• Jesus says to have childlike faith, and if anyone harms his little ones, it would be better for a millstone to be hung around their neck and thrown into the sea (Matthew 18:6).
• Abuse says childlikeness and innocence are to be exploited, manipulated and destroyed.

3. Theology:

• God says he is a God of justice, compassion, care, tenderness, our heavenly Father.
• Abuse done in God’s name is blasphemy. It distorts people’s view of God, making him seem vindictive, aloof, controlling, uncaring or even dangerous.

4. Hamartiology (doctrine of sin):

• God says abusers and rapists should be held accountable and punished for their actions. God even commanded to execute rapists but to protect victims (Deuteronomy 22:25-26).
• Abuse convinces the survivor they are the wrongdoer, that somehow they deserve to be inhumanly treated, that they should be ashamed of who they are rather than see themselves as children of God.

5. Public theology and ecclesiology:

• God says we must bring sin into the light, that we must hold lawbreakers accountable and that the church is not a legal body.
• Abuse says sin should be kept in the dark, that apologies without making amends are enough and that the church is accountable to no one but itself.

Creating safe spaces

So how do we set fire to the god of Molech and smash his altars? We do so by claiming kingdom territory in our classrooms, on our playgrounds and at our youth retreats. Every child care space must become holy ground where Jesus’ heart for children becomes ours: “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them” (Matthew 19:14).

Here are some basic starting points for local churches to establish safe sanctuaries:

1. Appoint a child safety coordinator. If no one can do it, you need to be the coordinator. From there, you can build a child safety team tasked with enforcing and updating policy, as well as being the go-to child care helpers.

2. Educate your child care team and church about your state’s mandatory reporter training. Each state has its own training on how to do a proper report in the event of an emergency.

3. Create a list of safe sanctuary policies for child care workers, such as the two-adult rule. No child should be left alone with an adult on church premises or at church-sponsored events.

4. Pray over every classroom that it would be a safe sanctuary and kingdom territory. Pray that the church’s ministry would lead to children loving Jesus and that his little ones would be protected from ravenous wolves.

It is imperative to ensure your church agrees to enforce safe sanctuary as a covenant community. Show that your church cares. Create a safe community. Start by appointing a person, then build a team, then build a safe community. It is not a matter of politics or policy; it is a matter of doctrine. The life and faith of our kids depend on child abuse prevention.

George Harold Trudeau is the child safety coordinator at Missio Dei Church Raleigh, N.C., and a Master of Divinity student at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. If you need help beginning your journey to make your churches safe sanctuaries, email him at OakCityeLearning@gmail.com.




Commentary: Child abuse prevention is a doctrinal issue

Like many in the Baptist world, my wife and I were shattered when the Guidepost Report was released in 2022.

I would be lying to say I was shocked. There were many whistleblowers prior to the report, and we had heard personally from many friends of the abuse they experienced within their church growing up.

The report put me at a crossroads: Should I leave the Southern Baptist Convention in protest, or should I stay and fight? Is abuse a core doctrinal issue for me, or is it merely a passionate position I hold that has little to do with Scripture?

At my core, I felt abuse was not a mere matter of policy; it had to be a matter of doctrine.

SBC reforms

Thankfully, my concerns about abuse are shared by many within the SBC. In 2022, the SBC created the Abuse Reform Implementation Task Force to address prevention and intervention strategies.

Two members of the task force included Kris Buckman, a youth and kids missionary consultant, and Brad Eubank, a pastor and survivor of clergy abuse. In several interviews, they explained the philosophy behind two resources created by the task force. In their interview with Baptist Press, they clarified the mission and goal of the materials created.

In its first iteration, the ARITF created Becoming a Church that Cares Well for the Abused, which is both a booklet and multimedia series. While helpful and rich, the material could be overwhelming to churches with no background in these issues. To help remedy this, the task force created new material that was disseminated at the 2024 convention.

In its second iteration, the ARITF created Essentials: Abuse Prevention and Response Lessons with the purpose of making the content more accessible. The five essentials are train, screen, protect, report and care. The material covers why background checks are not enough and provides tangible steps to create a safe environment.

Essentials is accessible online and, just like the earlier resource, is free. The material provides strategies for screenings and making reports. It also goes over what procedures are needed in the event of an emergency.

God’s command

But are these reforms mere polity changes, or do they reflect core theological beliefs? To see the connection between the SBC response and theology, we must look to Yahweh, the God who rescued the Hebrews from Egypt and revealed proper worship within a polytheistic, pagan world.

In the land of Canaan, many people worshiped Molech—an ancient tribal deity. Yahweh warned his people about this god as one who destroyed innocent children: “You shall not give any of your children to offer them to Molech, and so profane the name of your God: I am the Lord” (Leviticus 18:21).

God set himself apart from these nations forbidding them to participate in child sacrifice because Yahweh is holy, different from evil idols. These pagan practices were so evil, the people not only killed children, but they burned children to this deity as an act of piety (Deuteronomy 12:31).

God commanded his people to be pure. When entering the land of Canaan, the Israelites had to cleanse the land from idolatry. God said: “You shall tear down their altars and dash in pieces their pillars and burn their Asherim with fire. You shall chop down the carved images of their gods and destroy their name out of that place” (Deuteronomy 12:3).

God’s imperative to cleanse Canaan reveals how proper worship and treatment of children are inextricable.

Are our worship spaces safe?

Here comes the uncomfortable truth. Many of our worship spaces have not been safe sanctuaries for children. Perhaps they have inadvertently become altars to Molech who is not a deity, but our adversary, who seeks to destroy children and childlike faith.

A combination of bad actors and negligence has allowed holy places to become dens of idolatry and cruelty. Citing a statistic from the Child Welfare League of America, the ARITF states, “In 2021, 147 children were sexually abused every day on average in the United States.”

With such sobering statistics, do we really want our places of worship to give easy access to children without a thorough vetting process?

In my next article, I will show how leaders can communicate abuse reform as a doctrinal concern, as well as some basics steps every church can take to build a safe sanctuary.

George Harold Trudeau is the child safety coordinator at Missio Dei Church Raleigh, N.C., and a Master of Divinity student at Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. If you need help beginning your journey to make your churches safe sanctuaries, email him at OakCityeLearning@gmail.com.