ABILENE—Scott Sharman was supposed to be at Hardin-Simmons University in Abilene recently to receive an award from the university's Logsdon Seminary.
The Bratton Family Award honors a student in the doctor of ministry program for being both an excellent student and an excellent pastor. The doctoral program requires the student to conduct a project at his ministry—in Sharman's case at Alsbury Baptist Church in Burleson, where he is pastor.
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Sharman chose the theme of "how a church responds to people who suffer" for his project. But instead of being at the awards ceremony on April 10, he was headed to Nashville to actually live out "how a church responds to people who suffer."
After an unlikely journey, filled with twists and turns, he was scheduled for surgery to donate a kidney to his wife's cousin.
Logsdon Seminary couldn't have scripted a more unlikely — or exemplary — scenario for its award recipient.
"It made us look real good," said Larry Baker, director of Logsdon's Doctor of Ministry Program.
The man on the other end of the kidney transplant, Hugh Jones of Murfreesboro, Tenn., is a cousin to Sharman's wife, Phyllis. Jones was happy Sharman was chosen for the Logsdon award, but he didn't need any plaques to tell him what kind of man his cousin was married to.
"He's just an incredible person," Jone said. "I tell everybody God led Scott to me, and he took it from there."
Sharman, 55, doesn't see what all the fuss is about.
"There was a guy in need," he said, "and I gave him a kidney."
The remarkable journey began for Scott in November, but for Hugh Jones, 59, it started at birth. He, his sister and brother, all inherited polycystic kidney disease and his brother, Keith, 57, received a kidney transplant four years ago.
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The disease causes clusters of cysts to form in the kidneys and may be fatal. In fact, the mother of the Jones' brothers died at age 52 of a stroke caused by the disease.
Hugh Jones had been on a waiting list for two years for a kidney transplant from a deceased donor, and he had started dialysis in October. He had resigned himself to a long struggle, but all that changed in November when his cousin in Burleson and her husband happened to be looking at a family Facebook page.
They learned that Jones, who they last saw at a funeral in 2001, was on dialysis and in need of a transplant. The site gave his blood type — O Postive.
"I'm O Positive," Sharman said nonchalantly to his wife. "I'll give him a kidney."
Oddly, that magnanimity wasn't unprecedented in the Sharman family. His brother previously had donated a kidney to his own wife.
Sharman's words may have been casual, but they weren't idle. The next day, he checked out the website for Vanderbilt University Medical Center where Jones was on a waiting list. He filled out the questionnaire for a potential donor.
"Fifteen minutes after I hit the 'send' button," Scott said, "I got a phone call."
The Sharmans didn't notify Jones right away because they didn't want to get his hopes up if something went wrong. Scott followed up with medical testing in Fort Worth, and the results were sent to the Vanderbilt medical school. He turned out to be an excellent match.
The couple still didn't notify Jones. Instead, they phoned while en route to Ruidoso, N.M., on Dec. 21 to visit Scott Sharman's father, who was dying.
On the way, he made the call. His wife still remembers that early Christmas gift to her cousin.
"He was just stunned," she said. "He was in shock."
The remarkable journey had begun but was soon to hit a roadblock. In January, Sharman went to the Vanderbilt medical school for a physical and failed the stress test. He was told that he either had had an undetected heart attack in the past or that he had artery blockage.
Further testing in Fort Worth, including a heart catheterization in February, showed Sharman's cardiovascular system to be in good shape and that the original test result was a false positive.
In March, the transplant was given the green light and an April 12 surgery date was set. The Sharmans flew to Nashville, and the surgery was successfully performed on Thursday, April 12. Both men were released from the hospital on Sunday. The Sharmans flew home on Tuesday, April 17.
"I led our mid-week activities on Wednesday," Sharman said, "and preached on Sunday."
Not that he needed to preach a sermon — he was a sermon. Sharman said he realized he wasn't just donating a kidney to one man. A better and longer life for Jones also would have an impact on his wife, their children, and grandchildren.
Sharman remains humble and nonchalant about what others call an act of heroism. He doesn't see it that way.
"I'm just glad to be the answer to their prayers," he said.