Children deserve the best, BGCT president asserts

“The children are the church now,” not just the church of the future, newly elected Baptist General Convention of Texas President Debbie Potter remarked in a phone interview.

Potter was elected president at the BGCT annual meeting in Abilene in November, after previously having served as both second vice president and first vice president.

Her election marks the first time a children’s pastor has served as BGCT president, she observed, noting the role most frequently has been filled by senior pastors or institutional executives. She also is the first ordained woman elected as president of the BGCT.

Potter has served 22 years as children’s pastor at Trinity Baptist Church in San Antonio after previously serving six years at Parkhills Baptist Church, also in San Antonio, where she was licensed to the ministry. Additionally, she teaches at Baptist University of the Américas.

Her drive to serve children and families has kept Potter in ministry even through difficult times.

“I get asked on a regular basis: ‘Why are you still here?’” she said.

She noted that being in her early 60s, some assume retirement is just around the bend for her, but Potter said she doesn’t see it that way.

On the contrary, Potter said she feels like she’s “just getting started,” though she noted she also is intentional about empowering up-and-coming ministry leaders to lead, within the children’s ministry department she oversees.

She is excited to lead the churches of the BGCT to do more to ease suffering among children and families in Texas, Potter noted.

Some recent government changes in Texas have increased needs among already vulnerable populations, she asserted.

“Our children and families are hurting,” Potter said, and she believes BGCT churches can do more to help.

Her own church, for example, has taken an active role in supporting families in their community by providing beds for infants and lockboxes to reduce accidental deaths from co-sleeping or kids getting into medications, she explained. Participants in Trinity Baptist’s Vacation Bible Schools have raised money for these causes through their offerings.

Potter also noted she personally provides support to Child Protective Services workers to aid them in performing some of the difficult duties only they are qualified to do.

“The BGCT does some great work,” Potter said, mentioning lobbying for policies and laws that “give children a voice” in Texas through the Christian Life Commission as an example.

“If we don’t help these vulnerable children, the Bible’s pretty clear,” she added. “These are the least of these. Jesus commands us to do this.”

So, she hopes the somewhat different message she will bring to the BGCT will lead to greater advocacy for children among the churches.

Controversy surrounding being an ordained woman

Potter said debate on social media surrounding her election was somewhat surprising, noting she told her husband, “I had no idea I was this interesting.”

But, she said, she has assured everyone who has expressed concern: “I knew what I was doing. My whole ministry has had these type of things.”

Unknown people on the internet who don’t know her or anything about her don’t bother her much, although when those who are close to her speak out against her ministry it does cause pain.

She finds the social media drama around her election somewhat “comical,” she said—that “I’m worth fighting over” is strange to think about.

Background

Potter is the third generation of pastors in her family, with her father and grandfather both having served as pastors.

She was “one of those strange children that really loved ministry from the beginning,” she said. She never resented going to church or the demands of ministry, she said, noting she was fascinated with her father’s ministry.

She gravitated toward it, she said, explaining whoever among Potter and her two sisters got to ride home from church each week with her dad—a privilege she tried to gain every week—was treated to discussion about ministry.

That time in the car was “when he really would talk about ministry … and what it involves.”

Those rides were special to her, Potter said, because she got a “real inside view into what ministry really is,” noting her dad didn’t just share “the good things” but also some of the “really bad things that happened to him during his ministry.”

The example he set was of a “true shepherd” who treated his congregation as his community, she noted, emphasizing a mutual investment in one another between that church body and her father and between the church and herself personally.

When she was in college at Southern Nazarene University, Potter said she believed the only path to ministry for her would be to marry a pastor, “so (she) could stay in the ministry, because that’s what (she) really loved.”

Accordingly, when she began dating her husband, he was a religion major. However, after much struggle and prayer, he confessed to her that though he wanted to, he did not feel he was called to ministry.

By then, “I’d already fallen in love with him,” she said with a laugh. They’ve now been married 39 years, and he is her biggest advocate and supporter.

After they married, Potter taught public school until a rift with the Nazarene denomination led them to visit and join a Baptist church. About a year into their membership in the Baptist church, Potter said, “I just knew I was called into ministry” to serve children.

She applied for a position as children’s ministry director at Parkhills Baptist Church, a Southern Baptist congregation, and “they hired me,” she said.

“I always say it’s like the David story,” she said, when the youngest son who wasn’t even brought in for consideration as king was the one God had in mind.

“I didn’t have a Baptist pedigree. I don’t have a degree from a Baptist university,” she recalled, but that pastor, Robert Welch, saw her love for children as “the key here.”

“He took a chance on me, and he hired me. And that changed my life,” Potter reflected.

In 1998, She was the first female minister to be licensed to ministry at Parkhills Baptist Church.

Later, at Trinity Baptist Church, she was ordained—a step she said at the time she simply saw as an honor, with no idea of “the things in (her) life that (being ordained) would open criticism for.”

Potter pointed out she’s never moved out of children’s ministry. But, she said about ordination, “I felt like it gave me a stronger voice at the table when our pastoral staff met.” With ordination she gained “all the credibility” the others at the table had.

Over almost 30 years of sitting at the ministry table advocating for the children, Potter said, she felt ordination gave her a stronger voice from which to advocate for children being understood as the youngest members of the church now—not just the church of the future.

“It was just an honor, and I wanted to be fully empowered to take care of our kids,” she said.

She felt like her ordination was important for the kids, but she wasn’t trying to do anything offensive to anybody, Potter said.

In addition to a master’s degree in education from University of Texas at San Antonio, Potter also holds a Ph.D. from Andrews University. She pointed out it is more education than she ever will be compensated for, but she sought the degree because she believes children deserve “the best” too.

Potter wanted to have every qualification she could earn to best serve her community in children’s ministry, she explained.

And having served with some of the same people in and through that ministry for 22 years, they feel a calling too, Potter noted. “These are my people,” she said.

Potter also acknowledged the value of her election to other young women in Baptist life who feel called to ministry and pointed out the real threat of gifted young women leaving to follow God if they can’t find a place to be affirmed in ministry in Baptist life.

“And that’s my whole story, and what is really going to continue to be my whole story,” she said, in her new role as BGCT president—advocating for children as a woman in ministry.