Intergenerational groups may be key to discipleship
A newly released report by Barna and Gloo, a Barna research partner, highlights intergenerational small groups as a key opportunity for churches to strengthen discipleship.
The State of the Church report “Discipleship Across Generations” is one of a series of planned releases for each month of 2025.
The report analyzes four studies conducted in 2021, 2022, 2023 and 2024. Each study focused on a different generation/age group and its attitudes toward the church and discipleship.
Regarding the youngest group considered, the report notes a significant difference between where children’s ministry workers and parents believe the bulk of children’s discipleship should take place.
Ninety-five percent of children’s ministry leaders said discipleship primarily should occur at home. Yet, 45 percent of all churched adults said church, instead, should be the primary source of discipleship.
Among parents of 5-year-olds to 14-year-olds, the percentage saying church should be the primary source of discipleship was even higher, at 51 percent.
Lead researcher Daniel Copeland said for their research, Barna defines “discipleship as the process and relationship through which we lead people into a relationship with Jesus, including the traits of Christianity, the practices of Christianity.”
The data illustrates children’s ministry leaders are more convicted than parents about where discipleship starts, he explained. “Parents are unsure and children’s ministry leaders are quite confident” that discipleship should begin at home.
While data is not as clear on why parents and ministry leaders are split, Copeland noted a strong hypothesis is that as church programming has become stronger through the past few decades, “there’s been a moving consensus that parents don’t need to be as involved,” because parents can count on the church to do those things in “almost the same way that we think about school.”
Parents seem to have adopted a “drop off discipleship” mindset, “that you can just drop your kid off at church, and the church will take care of the rest,” in contrast to ministry leaders’ certainty discipleship still should begin at home.
So, Copeland noted, it becomes necessary “to balance what programs are good for versus the partnership that churches and parents really need to be focusing on.”
The report suggests that in “thinking about who needs to step up in child discipleship, children’s ministry leaders and parents seem to point at each other.” But, it says, a good place to point may be outward.
“Barna’s research suggests that other adults, mentors and friends can be powerful allies in growing kids’ faith, creating a ‘third space’ for discipleship between home and church,” the report says.
This under-tapped “third space” resource may be found in other adults within the congregation, the report suggests.
‘Aging Well’ insights
Barna’s Aging Well study showed aging churchgoers (55+) continue to report deep commitment to spiritual growth, with 85 percent agreeing “it’s important for me to see continual progress in my own spiritual life.”
But, “less than one in five Christians (18 percent) ages 55+ rate their church as ‘very effective’ at creating relationships with other generations.”
The Aging Well study also showed opportunities for churches to better care for aging adults’ mental and physical health, with only 16 percent and 13 percent reporting their church is “very good” at meeting those needs, respectively.
Regular social outings, shut-in ministry and small groups are ways to address these needs, Barna findings suggest.
The report noted a strong majority of Christians ages 55+ expressing that ongoing spiritual growth is important means “engaging this demographic through meaningful leadership roles and discipleship opportunities” might not only support senior adults’ needs, but also “leverages their wisdom and experience to benefit the spiritual life of the entire church.”
“As we examine how congregations can better promote discipleship across generations, it’s important to remember that strengthening ministry to senior adults isn’t just about serving them—it’s about empowering them to serve. Their role in your church’s discipleship efforts isn’t peripheral; it’s foundational,” the report says.
For Millennials and Gen Z, the report notes a “worrisome trend.” The data from RightNow Media and Barna study Discipleship in Community shows only a quarter of people who are being discipled are part of a small group, the top-of-mind method of discipleship in a Christian context.
Looking demographically, younger churchgoers who aren’t in small groups or Bible studies seem to “especially be wrestling with social insecurities” and anxieties with “church people,” the report explains.
The data shows 21 percent of female Gen Z/Millennials and 26 percent of male Gen Z/ Millennials cited “I don’t think I would fit in” as a reason not to participate in small groups. That compares to 12 percent of female Gen X and 5 percent of female Boomers/Elders and 6 percent of Gen X males and 9 percent of male Boomers/Elders who cited fear of fitting in.
Younger generations also are more likely to say they aren’t in a small group because they are intimidated, fear getting hurt and worry people wouldn’t like them than older generations, irrespective of gender.
The report suggests churches “communicate the unique value of small groups,” and notes “small groups may be one way of introducing bridge-building relationships, which are rare to find in other spheres of life.
“Churches who value this approach may need middle-aged and older small group attendees (who are more likely to be represented in church anyway) to extend themselves intentionally toward younger churchgoers who may be nervous or standoffish.”
The report notes the “least likely age group of churchgoers to say their relationship with Jesus brings them joy and satisfaction” is Gen Z.
“Additionally, they are least likely to feel Jesus speaks to them in a way that is relevant to their life.”
Over the years, Copeland said by email, “Barna has tested many hypotheses on the ‘why’ of these trends. Our research consistently acknowledges that next generations have a generally positive perspective of Christ, but a more neutral or negative perspective of the Christian Church.”
“In Spiritually Open (a Barna report released last year) our research identified the most common reasons next generations cite as to why they doubt … Christian teachings is the ‘hypocrisy of religious people.’”
Copeland continued: “They struggle to see Christ in today’s Christians. I would argue that this is the source of disconnection. They enjoy the person of Christ, but without faithful models or faithful discipleship they are left struggling to put faith into practice.”
Churches have an opportunity to welcome next generations in a way that doesn’t confirm the low expectations these generations have of today’s Christians, he said.
How to thrive
There is hope to bridge the disconnect and encourage healthy discipleship models. Copeland said, “We would say the research suggests, and other scholars in this area align with, is that multigenerational relationships is a huge piece of discipleship.”
When different generations mix, sharing their burdens and wisdom, “we are all more likely to thrive.”
Church programming’s tendency to split by age groups, though well-intentioned, has undercut the valuable intermingling of generations.
The data has been clear for some time, Copeland noted, but programming around it is difficult, especially when Gen Z feedback says “that sounds really overwhelming.”
“So, how do we encourage and equip them (Gen Z) to find belonging,” and at the same time encourage older adults to find a place at the table for younger people? Copeland said the church who wants to work on this might consider bringing the different generations together to discuss how to form intergenerational discipleship groups.
Other insights in the report seek to answer how churches can “equip older adults to serve as mentors in faith while still experiencing spiritual vitality as elder disciples themselves,” and “what are the distinct discipleship needs and preferences of Gen Z, Millennials and beyond?”
The report concludes, “Churches can create spaces where different generational perspectives are shared and valued—and where the life and lessons of Jesus are taught and realized in community.”
Opportunities to participate in events—the next of which is a webinar happening March 12—surrounding State of the Church releases can be found at https://stateofthechurch.com/events.