In praise of vasectomies
Thomas White, who teaches systematic theology at the Fort Worth school preached about birth control in a seminary chapel service this fall. (Here is a link to the story on our website.)
White told seminary students use of birth-control pills is “wrong,” “not correct according to Scripture” and, in some cases, “murder of a life.” The "murder" happens when the pill prevents a fertilized ovum from implanting in the uterus seven days after the sperm and egg unite. “The seventh day is seven days too long, and it’s murder of a life,” he declared. “When the egg and the sperm meet, you have life."
Life and soul
Granted, many of us believe life begins at conception. But people of goodwill and faithful intent disagree on when that moment occurs. Is it when the sperm fertilizes the egg? Or is it when the ovum implants into the uterus wall, where it can sustain nourishment and grow?
White said the single fertilized, un-implanted egg has a soul and is a person. He has every right to believe that. Millions do. But to use language like "murder" to describe prevention of implantation oversteps the professor's bounds. (Ironically, as he acknowledges, he didn't become convicted of this belief until after pregnancy no longer was inconvenient in his marriage.)
Abortion is one of the most divisive issues—maybe the most divisive issue—in America. We don't need Baptist seminary professors calling all women who use the pill murderers.
More birth control sinning
But, unfortunately, White didn't stop there. He compared birth control to lack of faith in God, noting: “Folks, you are not in control of your destinies—God is. And the sooner we recognize that we are sinning when we say, ‘I am going to control every aspect of my family’ and we’re not giving control to God, we don’t trust him, we don’t believe that he knows better than we do—we think we know more than God does …."
That's an awfully cock-sure approach to the will of God. Sometimes, God wants us to take responsibility for ourselves and for the outcomes of our actions and possible actions. To follow White's logic, pedestrians should run across expressways and drivers should ignore traffic lights, because if God wants them to get across the road, they will.
Besides theological arrogance and illogic, White reflects poor pastoral leadership, and maybe even misogyny, plus disregard for stewardship of the earth.
A woman's story …
A friend and mother of three sent me a poignant e-mail after she read the story. She wrote, in part, "The simple fact is that if we hadn't used birth control, or if (her husband) had not had a vasectomy, then I have no doubt I would have had children every year from the time we got married until almost the present day, or I would have died because my body just broke down. We were just that fertile."
So, White claims this good and godly faithful Christian woman sinned rather than bear children year after year. His assertion ignores the real physical burden on women of bearing large numbers of children. It is insensitive to the yearning for intimacy that God built into human sexuality. And by implicitly affirming that U.S. Christian couples produce large families, it affirms crippling dissipation of the earth's resources, since American families already consume a disproportionate share of food, water and energy.
Get a vasectomy
Still, I'm ironically glad White brought this up. It provides me with an opportunity to affirm the best long-term solution to birth control—the vasectomy.
For too long, too many men have placed the burden of contraception on women. The pill often presents detrimental side-effects, which only women bear. When a condom breaks, then the woman has to bear another baby. And you know what they call couples who practice the rhythm method. Parents.
Husband, if you and your wife have had all the children you intend to have and you're still of child-bearing age, do your part. Get a vasectomy. It's a whole lot easier on your body than the pill is on your wife's. And you're no less a man just because you no longer can get a woman pregnant. In fact, most women probably would say you're more of a man for owning up to your responsiblity.
Don't believe me? Ask your wife.