Connect360: A Woman of Noble Character
- Lesson 13 in the Connect360 unit “The Search for Wisdom: Words to Live By” focuses on Proverbs 31:10-31.
As the writer brings this section to a close, notice the most important characteristic of the noble and virtuous woman: “…a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised” (31:30b).
Now we arrive at the true heart of the matter. The writer shows us the source of all her actions and identifying the why behind all she does. In short, he is shining a light on her own heart and motivations.
Motivations come from many places both without and within. Some are true, loving and righteous, and they are built upon and reflect the good heart of God. Others are deceptive and lead us astray causing us to doubt God at best and reject him completely at worst.
The motives of the Proverbs 31 woman were those driven by faith and love. Her faith in God was the foundation upon which all else was built.
If there is a New Testament equivalent for her faithful and loving service, it would be 1 Corinthians 13. The loving commitments described there are clearly seen in the virtuous woman who fears the Lord, revealing the contents of her heart and showing clearly the why behind the things she does.
The genuine love she shows is “patient … kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. [It] does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. [It] never fails” (1 Corinthians 13:4–8).
In the Old Testament, the phrase “fear the Lord” was a common way of identifying those who believed in and followed the one true God. In Deuteronomy 10, for example, Moses challenged his people, saying, “And now, Israel, what does the Lord your God ask of you but to fear the Lord your God, to walk in obedience to him, to love him, to serve the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul” (Deuteronomy 10:12).
Likewise, the Psalmist wrote, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom; all who follow his precepts have good understanding” (Psalm 111:10). The faith of the virtuous woman provided the foundation upon on which everything else was built. It must be so today, as well.
This truth of God is timeless and perfect: God always looks at the heart. It is the Proverbs 31 woman’s heart where her truest and eternal beauties reside. That is why her children rise up and call her blessed and her husband, too, saying, “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all” (Proverbs 31:28–29).
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