LifeWay Bible Studies for Life Series for February 6: God loves the unlovely
God is the God of creativity, and he uses this to give living examples of who he is and who we are. Throughout Scripture, he provides models and illustrations of our relationship with him.
One of the most striking illustrations God uses is the one of Hosea and Gomer. Hosea is a prophet during the same time as Isaiah that God tells to go and marry an adulterous wife, a prostitute, which he does.
Can you imagine the conversation? Here you are, God’s literal and audible voice to his people and you’re being told to go get married, not just married to any woman but to one already living in adultery and who makes her living that way. Oh, the scandal!
The Lord tells Hosea in 1:2 that the land, his people, are guilty of the vilest adultery, departing from the Lord. It’s the worst type of betrayal according to God. Again, keep in mind that God is using real people to show his perspective on the current situation. Hosea, would represent God, and Gomer would represent the people.
We are Gomer. Sure, we’d like to think we are Hosea in this grand drama, but we’re not. And we know it. We are the ones who are guilty of adultery, even if you have remained faithful to your spouse. We’re cheaters and have, very literally in God’s eyes, jumped into bed with and became intimate with the world.
Perhaps this is a much-needed wakeup call for ourselves as Christians as we recognize we are adulterers, especially when we may find ourselves being judgmental of those who may not be living up to our standards. The next time you find yourself saying to someone else, “Did you hear so-and-so and so-and-so are sleeping together?” we might want to listen to God’s whispering voice in our ear saying, “Pssst, you’ve cheated, too.”
Am I faithful? It’s a great question and there’s a quick way to find the answer; it’s in Psalm 139:23-24. David tells—he doesn’t ask—God to search him and know his heart, to test his thoughts, and to see if there’s any offensive attitude or practice in him.
Yikes! Because David knows, and so do we, that God is going to do it. If we find ourselves continually asking, “am I faithful to God?” and yet never telling him to do a complete inventory of our whole being, then it probably means we really don’t want him to do it.
God’s response to our request will be one of faithfulness—remember he is more faithful to us than we are to him—and he will point out those things in our lives that are adulterous. Then he expects us to do something with them. It can’t be a thing of “God, just show me where they are.” That’s just getting information from God. How does it change you? It’s all about transformation and being changed into what you and I always were intended to be.
I recently officiated a wedding ceremony, and as strange as it sounds, Hosea 3:1-2 was the text the couple wanted preached. Crazy, huh? But it’s a beautiful picture of what has happened with us as we have been joined together with God through Christ.
After Hosea and Gomer are married, Gomer goes off and resumes her former occupation and is sleeping around again, and everybody knows it; she has no shame whatsoever. So God tells Hosea to go and show your love for her, which he does. Here’s a key point for all of us. Love is something that is supposed to be shown, visible to everyone around.
The people had to be amazed at Hosea who was showing his love for this corrupt woman. In the same way, people around us should be amazed at how we love one another and those around us. Totally blown away, so much so that those who see this kind of love want to have it and be part of it. Love isn’t supposed to be something we hide as Christians.
The next thing that jumps out from this account is that Hosea’s love is unconditional. He doesn’t stop loving her because she has run off and is sleeping around; it doesn’t change his love. That’s the kind of love God has for people.
Since when did we start believing that God loves you less because you made a mistake? He loves you just as much now as he ever did and ever will because he loves you completely and unconditionally for all eternity. Our love should be the same. Don’t let a wrong done keep you from loving someone or withholding your love.
The last thing we see in this is Hosea is told to go and buy his wife back. That’s right, he has to pay for her. What? But let’s remember we are Gomer, and we have been paid for as well. The price for you and for me was God’s only Son. He gave him up to buy us back from Satan and the world. Paul writes in first Corinthians 6:19-20 that you don’t belong to you. You were bought at a price. You belong to God.