Baptist Building staff breaks the bank to aid Texas hunger offering_122203

Posted: 12/19/03

Baptist Building staff breaks
the bank to aid Texas hunger offering

By Ken Camp

Texas Baptist Communications

DALLAS–Baptist Building staff recently offered hope and help to hurting people through bashed banks, bottled water and books bought for children.

Three times a year, all Baptist General Convention of Texas Executive Board personnel spend five days in lengthy staff meetings. But the most recent staff week included not just meetings, but also opportunities for meeting needs.

The Christian Life Commission, Woman's Missionary Union of Texas and Texas Baptist Men gave employees the chance to participate in a variety of mission-action projects during staff week.
Chip Kingery of ProVision Asia, Jana Whitworth of Dallas Baptist Association, Joyce Gilbreath of the Christian Life Commission, BGCT Executive Director Charles Wade and CLC Director Phil Strickland examine a pile of money donated by Baptist Building employees.

Several weeks ago, staff received plastic “rice bowl” banks from the Christian Life Commission, along with encouragement to fill the banks for world hunger.

Then the commission hosted a “rice bowl demolition” event at the Baptist Building. Various offices were asked to group themselves into five-person teams, adopting names like “Bowl Weevils” and “Mommas Against Hunger.” Teams were given hammers to break their banks, and then they raced to count out the pennies, nickels, dimes and dollars scattered on the floor.

The Texas Baptist Offering for World Hunger received $1,105.76 from the effort.

Chip Kingery of ProVision Asia, a Christian economic development ministry in India, and Jana Whitworth, community ministries associate for Dallas Baptist Association, expressed appreciation for what those dollars will mean in neighborhoods around the Baptist Building and on the other side of the globe.

“It was fun for us all. But the best part is that there will be people who will live and have a chance to thrive who would not have, but for this offering,” BGCT Executive Director Charles Wade wrote in an e-mail to staff after the event.

The last day of staff week was devoted to spotlighting the ministries of Texas WMU and Texas Baptist Men, and Baptist Building employees participated in learning activities that benefited several related missions projects.

Employees bought bottles of water for $1 each, and proceeds went to “Pure Water, Pure Love,” a ministry to provide Southern Baptist missionaries with water purifiers or water purification kits. The effort raised $271, more than enough to buy a water purifier for one missionary family.

Baptist Building staff members also brought 69 children's books, 23 audiocassette tapes and 122 padded mailers for the Texas WMU Story Book Project, as well as contributed $50 toward the emphasis.

The restorative justice ministry project enables the child of an incarcerated woman to hear his or her mother's voice reading a bedtime story. The mother in prison reads a children's book aloud, records the story and then sends the book and tape to her child.

Staff members also prayed for specific missions needs and ministries, wrote 71 notes of encouragement to directors of Christian Women's Job Corps sites throughout Texas and shopped for Christmas gifts in the World Crafts catalogue. Baptist Building staff spent close to $200 on WorldCrafts, an economic development project of WMU.

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In Africa, youth witness a miracle of loaves and fishes_122203

Posted: 12/19/03

American and African youth embrace camp with enthusiasm on the first day of meeting.

In Africa, youth witness a miracle of loaves & fishes

By Jo Upton

CBF Communications

When Christian teenagers from North America and Kenya visited the Baptist Children's Centre Orphanage in Nairobi, the true spirit of cultural exchange occurred.

“School was out on break, so the community had been invited to attend the day camp at the center,” said Melissa Browning, a member of Calvary Baptist Church in Waco who serves with her husband, Wes, as a Cooperative Baptist Fellowship Global Service Corps worker in Kenya. “We expected 50 kids to attend, and since there were 60 campers, we felt prepared.”

But the unexpected happened. As the teenage campers arrived at the center, children came running to greet their buses–all ages, all sizes. The crowd continued to grow until it reached 200, making the lunches planned for 50 a predicament. As camp staff advised the campers of the lack of food, they answered with one voice.

“Before they could finish whispering the word into the students' ears, they each replied, 'Give my lunch to the kids,'” Browning said.

While campers led children in games, crafts and Bible stories, adults divided sack lunches into smaller portions. Browning said the room grew silent as someone asked, “What should we do with the extra food?”

All the lunches had been provided, with four huge bags to spare.

“It was the miracle of the loaves and fishes happening all over again in a poor slum outside Nairobi,” Browning said. “As we gave away our own lunches, we had enough for everyone to eat.”

That evening, the campers shared their feelings about the events of the day. A young man from Kenya, whose father serves as pastor of one of the larger churches in Nairobi, stood up and thanked the volunteers for coming and sharing the experience in the slum. He said the event helped open his eyes to circumstances in his own country.

The summer trip to Kenya was several years in the making, a joint project between Passport, a CBF-affiliated camp program, and Africa Exchange, a non-profit organization under the CBF ministry of global missions.

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Texas students hit the road on mission during Christmas holidays_122203

Posted: 12/19/03

Texas students hit the road
on mission during Christmas holidays

By John Hall

Texas Baptist Communications

While Texas Baptists are celebrating Christmas with warm fires and loving families, many college students will be taking the holiday spirit beyond their campuses.

In what is developing into a trend, more college students are taking foreign mission trips between the fall and spring semesters through the Baptist General Convention of Texas Student Missions program, commonly called Go Now Missions.

Three years ago, the BGCT Center for Collegiate Ministry facilitated a foreign trip for one team. Last year, there were three teams. This year, there are six mission teams incorporating 55 students from 10 Texas campuses. An additional 10 semester missionaries will leave by Jan. 5.

Along with the overseas efforts, Baptist Student Ministries are getting involved in stateside and local missions between semesters. BSMs at the University of Texas at Austin and Tarleton State University are going to Santiago, Chile. South Plains College students are going to Mexico. West Texas A&M students are going to New York City, and a Navarro College BSM group is working at Mission Arlington. Several BSMs will do local work.

Brenda Sanders, BGCT Baptist student missions consultant, is excited to see more young adults looking to take advantage of their time between classes and believes missions involvement will continue to escalate.

The overseas trips provide missions opportunities for students who cannot give up an entire semester or summer, Sanders said. For others, the holiday efforts are another chance to spread Christianity before their upcoming summer-long missions experience.

“They're saying: 'I have free time. Why wouldn't I go?'”

Five of the six Texas mission teams are headed to East Asia, where members will share the Christian message of Christmas through drama and song at universities.

Although it can be difficult to express Christianity in this area, missionaries can freely share the story of Jesus' birth through a dramatic presentation because the production is viewed as an avenue to educate East Asia students about American culture, Sanders explained.

This trip is especially meaningful to the team from First Baptist Church in Canyon, said Brian Sullivan, college minister. The congregation made a covenant with workers in the area to send students annually, but a team was held back last year because of the SARS virus threat.

In early January, the sixth mission group will travel to St. Vincent in the Caribbean Sea, where college students will lead Bible studies and worship services for children and youth in local Baptist churches. The volunteers also will do some minor construction and painting.

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First African-American Executive Board chair has law background_122203

Posted: 12/19/03

First African-American Executive
Board chair has law background

By Ken Camp

Texas Baptist Communications

HOUSTON–When John Ogletree first felt God's calling into ministry, he thought there must have been a mistake.

At 29, he had completed law school, passed the bar exam and started a successful legal practice. So before taking the leap, Ogletree spent 10 months meeting with his pastor at Bethel Missionary Baptist Church in Houston to pray, study and confirm that calling.

“When God started messing with me, I was angry and confused,” he admitted. “I thought everything I had done up to that point had been a waste.”

But looking back, the founding pastor of First Metropolitan Baptist Church in Houston can see how God was preparing him for future leadership opportunities, including the chairmanship of the Baptist General Convention of Texas Executive Board. When he assumes the post in January, he will be the first African-American to serve in the role.
John Ogletree

“My background has given me the opportunity to be exposed to people, ideas and organizations that have shaped my leadership style,” Ogletree said. “It has put me into circles with other leaders who have helped to shape my leadership focus.”

Ogletree grew up in Dallas attending Mount Tabor Missionary Baptist Church and then College Park Baptist Church. Later, he joined Rose Chapel Missionary Baptist Church, where his father–who also entered the ministry late in life–was pastor.

He graduated from Wilmer Hutchins High School, where he played football and ran track, and then he went on to the University of Texas at Arlington. There he served on the student congress and as vice president of the student body.

After he graduated from the South Texas College of Law in Houston, Ogletree practiced law for about 16 years. Several years into his legal practice, he started First Metropolitan Baptist Church in northwest Houston.

The church has grown from an original core group of 13 to more than 1,300 resident members, with about 800 adults and youth attending two worship services each Sunday.

For nearly 10 years, Ogletree worked as a bivocational pastor. Even then, he devoted most of his legal practice to representing churches, particularly in conflicts requiring mediation.

The last eight years, he has served his church full time and found time for extensive denominational service. He has been moderator of Union Baptist Association and was part of the initial 32-member founding board for Texas Baptists' new missions network, WorldconneX. After a term as vice chair of the BGCT Executive Board, he was elected chairman of the board for 2004.

“I see us becoming an inclusive, kingdom-minded organization from the top down,” Ogletree said, describing his vision for the BGCT. “Leadership on the Executive Board is a collaborative kind of leadership, and I look forward to working with Dr. Charles Wade and in harnessing the collective wisdom of the board.”

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JOY ON FOUR LEGS Pet ministry in Houston_122203

Posted: 12/19/03

Nancy Malley and Niko, a poodle, greet Irene Tesch at the Regency Village Nursing Home in Webster, where pets are used as a therapeutic ministry.

JOY ON FOUR LEGS:
Pet ministry in Houston

By George Henson

Staff Writer

HOUSTON–Joy comes in all shapes and sizes, and sometimes with four legs.

The Faithful Friends animal-assisted therapy ministry of University Baptist Church in Houston spread yuletide cheer this holiday season to hospitalized children, incarcerated teens and senior adults no longer capable of living in their own homes.

“These pets have a very special way of demonstrating God's unconditional love,” said Shari Ferguson, founder of the ministry. “They don't care what you look like, whether you've had a bad day or a good one, or whether you have physical or emotional pains. They love you just the way you are all the time. This is what people who are in long-term care facilities or recovering in rehabilitation hospitals need most of all–to be loved just the way they are.”

For some children the animals visit, that also means not caring about what has happened in the past. One of the ministry's longest and most productive relationships is with the Devereaux Treatment Center for Youth.

Volunteers and their pets line up outside the dining hall at Regency Village Nursing Home in Webster. The humans and animals delivered Christmas cheer as part of an ongoing pet ministry in the Houston area. Volunteers report that in nursing homes, hospitals and centers caring for traumatized children, pets break down barriers of communication and demonstrate unconditional love.

Youth come to this facility for a variety of reasons–none of them good. Some have known physical or sexual trauma and are working with counselors to overcome their emotional scars. Others have been involved with gangs or have been abusers themselves. Many have experienced both sides of the equation.

The animals, especially the dogs, create a key component of treatment. The animals visit weekly, and the youth are given the opportunity to “train” them. ready know the proper response to such commands as “sit” and “stay,” the youth learn how to use positive reinforcement to achieve the results they desire rather than employing abusive behavior and speech.

One of Ferguson's dogs is particularly loved by the youth. Bear is a chow she found with a clothesline tied around his neck and showed obvious signs of abuse. When she finally trapped the dog in an enclosed yard and won its confidence, animal specialists told her the dog probably never would recover from its injuries or be friendly with humans again.

After months of veterinary care and a year of learning to socialize with humans, Bear went to Devereaux. While the other dogs chased balls and caught Frisbees, Bear found a quiet spot to sit, Ferguson recalled. After a while, a boy came over, and Ferguson told him Bear's story of past abuse. Before an hour had passed, the boy was telling Bear how much he loved him.

When the visit was over, therapists told Ferguson the boy also had been physically abused, but no therapy method had caused him to open up about his experiences. In the coming weeks, the boy and Bear developed such a relationship that the therapists used the dog to break through, and finally the boy talked about his own situation.

“Many tears flowed–from the boy, from me and the therapists,” Ferguson said.

The ministry group, which began in October 1993 with only two dogs and two humans, now numbers more than 150 two-legged volunteers and even more animals. Over the years, the animals involved have included dogs, cats, rabbits, a turtle, a ferret and a rat.

The ministry has grown to include more people who are not members of University Baptist Church than those who are.

“We allow them to be a part, because I believe Faithful Friends can be a ministry to everybody involved,” Ferguson said. “I tell everyone up front that we will pray before each visit for the people we will minister to, the people who will be taking the animals and for the animals themselves. I also let them know that those in Faithful Friends pray for the needs of one another just in general. Now, if they are not comfortable being a part of a group that prayer is such a large part of, I tell them that maybe they need to find another group.”

Some have come to become involved at University Baptist Church after their initial experience with Faithful Friends.

The group has no age restrictions, and all ages are represented in the ministry.

The ministry conducts temperament tests for its animals monthly. This is not an obedience test, but a measure of how the animal reacts to strangers and to strange environments, assuring no signs of aggression are present. Animals also must have up-to-date veterinary records on file.

Pet ownership is not a requirement for participation. Many of the volunteers have more than one pet, but the rules of the group establish a one-to-one ratio of human to animal on visits.

Like many of the participants, Jeff Heflin, leader of one of the nursing home groups, was attracted by a way to be of service to others and also involve the dogs he loves.

“I had three dogs, and it just seemed like a good match,” he said.
Fifteen groups of volunteers take their pets to hospitals and nursing homes, as well as to Devereaux

His son, Kevin, enjoys the way his dog, Sasha, affects the people they visit.

“I like how the residents are so happy when they get to see Sasha and the other animals and pet them,” he said. “It makes them really happy, and I like that.”

Fifteen groups of volunteers take their pets to hospitals and nursing homes, as well as to Devereaux.

Each year at Christmastime, the animals deliver small gifts to the people they visit, like the residents at Regency Village Nursing Home. This year, each resident was given a decorated Santa hat.

Irene Tesch was thrilled to have Niko, a small poodle, sit in her lap and cuddle, all the while licking the hand of yet another resident.

Albert Lively enjoyed petting the head of Star, a full-grown Irish Setter, whose height made strokes from someone in a wheelchair an easy task.

Buzzy, a spunky Pomeranian, was a crowd pleaser as he danced around in circles on his hind legs.

The animals make an extraordinary impact during the Christmas season, particularly at nursing homes., Ferguson said. Fifty percent of Texas nursing home residents don't have spouses or surviving family, and 60 percent have no regular visitors.

“Sometimes we take pictures of the residents with their favorite pet that comes to visit them,” Ferguson said. “When we gave the pictures to one resident, she sat with the pictures in her lap and kept looking at them over and over again. She liked them so much that she said she was going to put them in a special place on the wall along with the pictures of her grandchildren.”

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Posted 12/19/03

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Why do we know not Joseph

JOY ON FOUR LEGS: Pet ministry in Houston

As teen abstinence message spreads, effectiveness lessens




JOY ON FOUR LEGS: Pet ministry in Houston

Counselors urge frank talk on what is sex

As teen abstinence message spreads, effectiveness lessens

Six teens named to Texas Acteen Advisory Panel…

Addison Road takes a ride into Christian music

Church makes community interaction a fine art

Bittick marks 25 years with Denton Association

Richardson church touches world with internship

Buckner care continues in Russia even after the shoes are put on feet

FOOT JOY: Shoes for Russian Souls

Powell stays on as Truett Seminary dean

Veteran journalist Ken Camp elected managing editor of Baptist Standard

Canton children make a market for missions lesson

Three schools claim part of B.H. Carroll's legacy

As troops fly through DFW Airport, chaplains offer comfort and aid

Garland church takes a byte out of unemployment with teaching ministry

Hunt family pledges $5.5 million matching funds to DBU

Baptist Building staff breaks the bank to aid Texas hunger offering

Austin church adopts 50 families for care

West Texas minister keeps lots of balls in the air

First African-American Executive Board chair has law background

Pastors encouraged to be shepherds rather than executives

Texas Baptist volunteers help spur Baptist growth in Vermont

WorldConneX adds staff and adopts budget

On the Move

Around the State

Texas Tidbits

DEEP IN THE HEART OF TEXANSPOSITIVE CHARGE: Interstate Batteries' Norm Miller




IMB's goal is one worker in every unreached people group

Akin nominated to succeed Patterson as Southeastern Seminary president

SBC ethicist joins criticism of 'Rickshaw Rally

Louisiana College restricts textbooks

Baptist Briefs




Why do we know not Joseph

Pornography snares women as well as men today

Counselors urge frank talk on what is sex

As teen abstinence message spreads, effectiveness lessens



Bush comments stir debate anew on whether all worship same God

Faith-based prison touted in Florida

Religious beliefs, experience impact views on homosexuality



Pornography snares women as well as men today

Counselors urge frank talk on what is sex

As teen abstinence message spreads, effectiveness lessens



GLIMPSES OF THE WORLD: Lottie Moon Offering

In Africa, youth witness a miracle of loaves & fishes

Endowed position launches CBF emphasis on church starting growth

'Are you Santa' child asked missionary

Buckner care continues in Russia even after the shoes are put on feet

FOOT JOY: Shoes for Russian Souls

Texas Baptist volunteers help spur Baptist growth in Vermont

Texas students hit the road on mission during Christmas holidays




Texas Baptist Forum

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On the Move

Cartoon




EDITORIAL: Begin at the manger, but follow Jesus through his life

DOWN HOME: Blessings erase wishes on list

TOGETHER: True joy follows obedience to God

Texas Baptist Forum

THIS CHRISTMAS: Receive the gift of hope this season

Mother, heaven and Christmas by Debbie Davies

CHRISTMAS VIEW: Celebrate Christmas from now on

Cybercolumn for 12/22: Pondering by Berry D. Simpson

Cybercolumn for 12/15: Of Christmas and angels by John Duncan

Cybercolumn for 12/8: The career plan by Donna Van Cleve

Cybercolumn for 12/1: Preparing for Christmas by Brett Younger




LifeWay Explore the Bible Series for Dec. 28: When God doesn't make sense, trust him still

LifeWay Family Bible Series for Dec. 28: Jesus Christ is life and the light of the world

LifeWay Explore the Bible Series for Jan. 4: The beginning of wisdom is a fear of the Lord

LifeWay Family Bible Series for Jan. 4: God chooses the unlikely and equips them well

LifeWay Explore the Bible Series for Jan. 11: Rejecting wisdom is tantamount to rejecting God

LifeWay Family Bible Series for Jan. 11: Courage plus faith produces incredible results


See articles from previous issue 12/08/03 here.




SBC ethicist joins criticism of ‘Rickshaw Rally_120803

Posted: 12/19/03

SBC ethicist joins criticism of 'Rickshaw Rally'

By Bob Allen

EthicsDaily.com

Churches in the Southern Baptist Convention should consider avoiding the Asian-themed “Rickshaw Rally” Vacation Bible School material produced this year by the SBC's publishing house, says a consultant for the SBC's moral concerns agency.

“Southern Baptist churches should seriously consider using other material this year in their Vacation Bible Schools,” Ben Mitchell, a consultant on biomedical and life issues for the SBC Ethics & Religious Liberty Commission, wrote in an op-ed piece in the Florida Baptist Witness.

Mitchell also is associate professor of bioethics at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School near Chicago. His commentary represents his own views and not the official position of either organization, the Jacksonville-based newspaper said.

Writing in response to Mitchell, his first public comments on controversy over the VBS theme, LifeWay Christian Resources President Jimmy Draper said he was “deeply offended” by accusations that the material is racist.

“I am deeply offended by this and am saddened by the way our critics have used this inflammatory term to attack us,” Draper wrote. “I challenge anyone to examine our curriculum and produce evidence that we have done anything other than celebrate the diversity of people for whom Christ died.”

Draper countered criticisms that large numbers of Asians are offended by the theme, that LifeWay has been unresponsive to concerns, that it didn't consult Asians in its research and that it didn't pull the material for purely financial reasons.

“Whatever inadvertent shortcomings there may be in 'Racing to the Son,' the ministry impact of removing VBS material would have been profound,” he said.

Draper admitted the curriculum incorporated American elements but denied that it cheapened Asian culture in the process. Symbols like Chinese takeout boxes and fortune cookies “merely provide American kids with a recognizable bridge to a new and wonderful culture,” he said.

But Mitchell said he believes “Rickshaw Rally” contains stereotypes of Asians that give an inaccurate picture of modern Japan and may be “culturally insensitive.”

Since the material is already being distributed, Mitchell said LifeWay “should apologize and avoid using people groups for promoting products.”

“Finally, we should get to know our Japanese, Chinese, Korean, Vietnamese and Cambodian neighbors,” Mitchell concluded. “Only by respecting them as persons and understanding their cultures can we reach them with the news that 'red and yellow, black and white, they are precious in his sight.'”

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Akin nominated to succeed Patterson as Southeastern Seminary president_122203

Posted: 12/19/03

Akin nominated to succeed Patterson
as Southeastern Seminary president

WAKE FOREST, N.C. (ABP)–Daniel Akin, academic dean at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, Ky., will be recommended as president of Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary in Wake Forest, N.C., next month.

A special meeting of Southeastern's trustees has been set for Jan. 15, when the recommendation will be presented, said Timothy Lewis, trustee chairman and chairman of the search committee. If elected, Akin will succeed Paige Patterson, who left to become president of Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Fort Worth. All three seminaries are owned by the Southern Baptist Convention.

“Dr. Akin is a man with great vision, keen insight and spiritual understanding,” Lewis said in a news release. “His enthusiasm is contagious and genuine. We do not feel any other man in Southern Baptist life could better follow Dr. Patterson than Dr. Daniel Akin.”

Akin, 46, is vice president for academic administration and dean of the School of Theology at Southern Seminary. He previously worked with Patterson at Southeastern as professor of theology, dean of students and vice president for student services from 1992 to 1996.

From 1986 to 1992, he was professor of New Testament, theology and history at Criswell College in Dallas, where at the time Patterson was president. Akin also served on the staff of First Baptist Church of Dallas, was associate pastor of Audelia Road Baptist Church in Dallas and assistant pastor of Northlake Baptist Church in Dallas.

He earned a bachelor's degree from Criswell College, a master of divinity degree from Southwestern Seminary, and a doctor of philosophy degree from the University of Texas at Arlington.

He was New Testament editor of “The Believers Study Bible” by Thomas Nelson Publishers and wrote the volume on the epistles of John for the New American Commentary series.

In 1996, Christianity Today magazine named Akin one of 50 emerging Christian leaders under the age of 40. He is a member of several professional organizations, including the Southern Baptist Historical Society, the Society for the Scientific Study of Religion, and the Evangelical Theological Society.

Akin and his wife, Charlotte, have been married 25 years and have four children–twins Daniel and Jonathan, 22; Paul, 20; and Timothy, 18.

Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary, with its main campus in Wake Forest, N.C, was founded in 1951. In 1987, it was the first of the six SBC seminaries to come under the control of fundamentalists, who rose to power in 1979.

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Counselors urge frank talk on what is sex_122203

Posted: 12/19/03

Counselors urge frank talk on what is sex

Editor's note: This story contains frank dialogue about sexual matters and may not be appropriate for all readers.

By John Hall

Texas Baptist Communications

Young adults appear to be turning to oral sex as a way to remain sexually “pure” yet sexually active during the extending period before marriage, according to sexual health experts.

Dan McGee, director of Baptist General Convention of Texas Counseling and Psychological Services, and Joe McIlhaney, director of the Medical Institute for Sexual Health, report oral sex is becoming an increasingly popular alternative to vaginal sex, especially among teens.

Younger generations are having to fight their sexual desires longer because they are marrying later, McGee noted. While it was the norm for earlier generations to marry during a person's early 20s, young people are now commonly getting married in their late 20s or early 30s.

The social stigma that was associated with oral sex also has lessened. While McGee remembers his generation viewing the act as perverted or primarily practiced by homosexuals, younger generations view it as acceptable behavior.

While empirical data on this phenomenon is not readily available, McGee, McIlhaney and other youth counselors report what seems to them to be a clear trend.

Among the physical evidence, however, is a University of Wisconsin study that found 78 percent of new genital herpes cases could be linked to a virus that causes cold sores.

A recent Northern Kentucky University study revealed 61 percent of young adults who made abstinence pledges broke them. Among the 39 percent who did not engage in vaginal intercourse prior to their promise and said they kept their promise, 55 percent indicated they had engaged in oral sex.

Rather than narrowing the definition of what constitutes sex, young adults need to broaden it greatly, warns McGee, a clinical sexologist. Not only is oral sex sex, but so is any sexual touching with the intention of arousal, he said.

“Just because the president of the United States says it isn't sex doesn't make it so,” he said.

McIlhaney echoed McGee's thoughts, saying sexual education courses should teach that sex is a larger realm than vaginal intercourse: “Young people need to be taught physical contact for the purpose of arousal is sexual intercourse.”

McGee outlines three stages in the human sexual response cycle. The first, desire, triggers the second step, biological sexual arousal. Up to these points, individuals have some power over their sexual actions.

People can control their actions largely by avoiding situations where they will be sexually tempted, McGee noted. But adolescents are particularly susceptible to moving from desire to arousal because their hormones are highly sensitive, and they feel the societal push toward sex.

“You can't help it if you have an interest in sex or a desire for sex,” he said. “We do have control over how much we let ourselves go into arousal.”

Although individuals may fight against acting on their desires, once the orgasmic reflex is triggered, control is no longer an option, McGee continued. That God-given design can be beautiful inside marriage, but it can be destructive outside marriage, the counselors warned.

McIlhaney noted a non-marital relationship that includes oral sex can be damaging to a young adult's self-esteem. The individual may feel used or unloved.

Both experts pointed out the numerous sexually transmitted diseases that can be contracted through oral sex, particularly with multiple partners. And the earlier young adults have their first sexual interaction, the more likely they are to contract diseases.

Young people often make the incorrect and dangerous assumption that they cannot get diseases through oral sex, McGee said. “Every risk you have except pregnancy is still there with oral sex.”

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As teen abstinence message spreads, effectiveness lessens_122203

Posted: 12/19/03

As teen abstinence message spreads, effectiveness lessens

By John Hall

Texas Baptist Communications

Signatures on many sexual abstinence commitment cards may not be worth the paper they are written on, according to a recent university study.

However, a Baptist who has led one of the nation's most prominent abstinence crusades contends those results are skewed, justifiably, by the ineffectiveness of programs that are not faith-based.

Researchers at Northern Kentucky University surveyed 527 students, 16 percent of whom made abstinence pledges. The study found 61 percent of those who made abstinence promises broke them before marriage. And even among the 39 percent who did not engage in vaginal intercourse, more than half did engage in oral sex.

On a more positive note, the study found pledge breakers engaged in sex a year later than non-pledging teens. However, the pledge breakers were less likely to use protection such as condoms when first having sex.

While the survey represents findings from a small segment of the population, it is one of the first studies of the effectiveness of virginity pledges. While the information should serve as a warning sign, further information is needed before nationwide conclusions can be drawn, said Angela Lipsitz, a professor who was involved in the study.

“It sends up cautions,” she said. “I would say we need to be skeptical at this point. It is only one study. This is showing some interesting things, but I would like to see them replicated.”

Richard Ross, a spokesman for the Southern Baptist-birthed abstinence effort True Love Waits, said the survey's findings did not surprise him.

After the enormous popularity of True Love Waits, the federal government began funding more than 200 abstinence programs that are used in the majority of school systems across the country. Often these efforts consist of a short lecture about reasons for abstinence and a request for students to sign a piece of paper in a notebook, he said. There is sparse follow up, and the pledge carries little weight.

“Even though I am very supportive of any programs that talk about abstinence, I think many of the pledges signed lack the power to shape long-term decisions,” he said.

True Love Waits work is more effective, he said, because it adds an element secular efforts lack–God. He believes the addition of the supernatural gives the promise more power.

“Promising a notebook means almost nothing,” Ross said. “Promising to God is extremely important to most young people.”

True Love Waits works through local churches and with families, a key element in providing accountability, support and encouragement that differs from secular programs, Ross added.

Additionally, the larger gatherings sponsored by True Love Waits–such as stacking the pledge cards to the roof of the Georgia Dome in Atlanta or the upcoming collection of cards at the 2004 Olympics in Athens–provide celebratory occasions that help teens know they are not alone in their beliefs, Ross said.

These celebrations create a brotherhood among students and encourage them to be proud of their stance, said Ross, who started the movement at Tulip Grove Baptist Church in Nashville in 1993 and now is a professor at Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in Fort Worth.

David Hager, director of the University of Kentucky-affiliated obstetrician and gynecology training program at Central Baptist Hospital in Lexington, Ky., affirmed Ross' belief in the necessity of continuous support for a pledge to be successful.

Supportive friends and family are key to encouraging young adults to stick to their promises, Hager said.

When an individual's support group becomes less supportive of a sexual purity pledge, the chances of keeping that oath drop drastically, he reported. “The teaching of abstinence and abstinence education is not a one-time event. It has to be a continuous thing.”

Joe McIlhaney, director of the Medical Institute for Sexual Health, a non-profit educational group based in Austin, goes even further to say that abstinence pledges should be renewed to keep them fresh on the teen's mind.

“The kids are really asking for help staying sexually abstinent,” he said. “They just aren't receiving the support.”

The effort to create a virginal community through True Love Waits has worked so well that it is cited as a factor behind a statistical national drop in teen sexual activity each year since its inception. Today, slightly more than 50 percent of middle school and high school students are virgins, Ross said, and that's an improvement.

“Behavior is changing,” he said. “It has not changed for every teenager.”

Ironically, too much success may dilute the effectiveness of abstinence pledge programs, according to the government's 2001 National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health.

As the number of pledges increases in a school, their effectiveness decreases, the study found. Researchers report that students are attracted to the pledges, in part, because they get a sense of community apart from their peers.

Even though secular abstinence programs are less effective than faith-based ones, the government should continue funding secular programs, Ross insisted. Not only are such programs morally right, they also save the government money on social services every time they prevent a teenager from getting pregnant.

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Six teens named to Texas Acteen Advisory Panel_122203

Posted: 12/19/03
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Busha
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Six teens named to Texas Acteen Advisory Panel

By Ken Camp

Texas Baptist Communications

Six 11th and 12th grade Baptist girls have been selected to serve on the Texas Acteens Advisory Panel for this year.

Panelists are Abby Baldridge, a junior from Rocky Point Baptist Church in Stephenville; Laura Busha, a senior from Freeman Heights Baptist Church in Garland; Kaitlin Chapman, a senior from First Baptist Church in Amarillo; Martha Sicking, a junior from First Baptist Church in Bay City; Jessica Elizabeth Stanfield, a senior from University Heights Baptist Church in Huntsville; and Ashlee Taylor, a junior from First Baptist Church of Humble.

“These Acteens were selected to represent Texas Acteens because of their investment in ministry, missions awareness and servant leadership,” said Emily Row, Acteens consultant with Woman's Missionary Union of Texas.

“These special young women will give leadership in a variety of ways throughout their year of service. The panelists will have opportunities in their churches, associations and in the state to share their missions journey.”

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Around the State_122203

Posted: 12/19/03

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Miwha Han
Helmer Jensen
Shannon Jensen
Mike Shattuck
Vicki Shattuck

Around the State

Appointments

Three Texas couples were among missionaries appointed by the International Mission Board of the Southern Baptist Convention last month in Lexington, Ky.:

bluebull Young and Miwha Han will serve in the Caribbean Basin, where he will be a church starter. He is a former associate pastor of Korean First Church in Dallas.

bluebull Helmer and Shannon Jensen will serve in southern Africa in field-support roles. She is a native of Fort Worth. They have four children, Veronica, Alexandria, Gabrielle and Joslynne.

bluebull Mike and Vicki Shattuck will serve in central and eastern Europe, where he will be a strategy coordinator. He is a former director of missions for Haltom Road Church in Fort Worth, while she served the church as preschool director. She also served at North Fort Worth Church in Fort Worth and at First Church in Lewisville. He was Macintosh systems engineer at Prestonwood Church in Plano. They previously served as International Service Corps volunteers in Chile.

Children in Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, appreciated the efforts of 44 Texans who traveled more than 1,200 miles in vans to lead Vacation Bible School and pass out tracts along the Malecon boardwalk there. The five VBS sites drew more than 1,000 children. Churches involved in the mission effort were Primera Hispana in Giddings, Fuente Vida in Brenham, Mission Emmanuel in Caldwell, First Church in Lexington and First Church in Caldwell. Independence Church in Brenham and First Church of Dime Box made financial contributions to the trip.

Retiring

bluebull Norman Fry, as pastor of First Church in Friendswood, after more than 50 years in the ministry, Feb. 1. He has served his present congregation for more than 36 years. He was licensed to preach at Bell Memorial Church in Decatur and ordained to the ministry at Calvary Church in Bay City. His prior pastorates were at Collegeport Church in Collegeport, Oyster Creek Church in Oyster Creek, First Church in Three Rivers and West End Church in Freeport. The church will honor him Sunday, Jan. 25, with a catered lunch and a time of recognition and appreciation. Lunch reservations need to be made in advance by calling (281) 482-7573.

Anniversaries

bluebull Gary Demmitt, 10th, as pastor of Pleasant View Church in Bridgeport.

bluebull James Cavanaugh, 25th, as pastor of New Light Church in Lubbock, Dec. 1.

bluebull Dwayne McCrary, fifth, as minister to young adults at First Church in Lubbock, Jan. 1.

bluebull Jim Gerlt, 10th, as pastor of Indiana Avenue Church in Lubbock, Jan. 16.

Deaths

bluebull Charles Cockrell, 94, Nov. 12 in Arlington. Cockrell was the pastor of several congregations, including 28 years as pastor of First Church in Garland. A Baylor University graduate, he also was moderator of Dallas Baptist Association, chairman of the board of trustees of the Southern Baptist Annuity Board, the Baptist Standard and the Southern Baptist Sunday School Board. While pastor of the Garland church, enrollment rose from 300 people to more than 2,000. He also led the church to start seven missions, which are now established churches. He also served on the Baylor board of trustees 16 years, during which four buildings were constructed at the Baylor University Medical Center in Dallas and two on the Waco campus. He attended every Baylor University football game for more than 50 years. The Garland Chamber of Commerce voted him the outstanding religious leader of Garland within the last 50 years. He was preceded in death by his wife of 65 years, Willie Mae. He is survived by his daughters, Carol Jones and Carma McCollum; four grandchildren; and one great-granddaughter.

bluebull Agnes Cavin, 79, Dec. 5 in Abilene. She was the wife of Berl Cavin, a longtime Texas pastor and director of the missions division of Dallas Association. She also was an administrative assistant for Buckner Children's Home in Dallas six years. She was a member of First Church in Abilene. She was preceded in death by her husband. She is survived by her son, Bob; daughter, Debbie Coltman; brother, Wesley Thompson; four grandchildren; and three great-grandchildren.
Buddy and Beth Wells have been commissioned as Mission Service Corps volunteers. Pastor Dan Murray of First Church in Stephenville presented them with certificates recognizing them as volunteers working with churches in Erath Association. Buddy Wells served on the church's staff from 1984 until his retirement in 2000.

bluebull Paul Leath, 87, Dec. 9 in Houston. A Baylor University graduate, he was pastor of churches in Louisiana, Georgia and California in addition to First Church in Brownwood. He joined the faculty of Houston Baptist University in 1976. He was president of the California Baptist Convention. He had been a member of West University Church in Houston since 1976. He retired from the university to interim ministries in 1987 at age 71. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Ann; brother, Roland; and grandson, Jason. He is survived by his wife of 39 years, Maritia; daughters, Ann Leath, Louise Beard, Brooks Hauschild and Joelle Leath; stepdaughter, Hopie Campbell; stepson, Stan Allcorn; and eight grandchildren.

bluebull Joe Morman, 87, Dec. 12 in Longview. A Baylor University graduate who had his studies interrupted by a stint as a paratrooper in World War II, he was pastor of churches in Illinois, New Mexico and Chandler, Harris Creek and Hale Center. He was president of the New Mexico Baptist Convention two years. In 1974, he moved to Longview to become director of missions of Gregg-Soda Lake Baptist Area. He retired in 1981, and had been active at First Church in Longview 29 years. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Anita, and brother, J.O. He is survived by his wife, Lou Ann; daughters, Rebecca Bassett and Susan Wright; step-sons, Tim and Steve Marrow; sister, Bonnie Wilkinson; brother, Jack; three grandchildren; five step-grandchildren; and two great-grandchildren.

Ordained

bluebull James Hassell to the ministry at First Church in Bedford.

Events

bluebull Brentwood Church in Houston will ring in the new year with a Watch Night service Dec. 31 at 10 p.m. Pastor Joe Ratliff will deliver the message. For more information, call (713) 852-1400.

bluebull Bethel Church in Clardy will hold a dedication service Jan. 4 for a newly constructed 4,600-square-foot educational building and fellowship hall. Ron Lyles, pastor of South Main Church in Pasadena will be the guest speaker. Several men from the Pasadena church assisted in the construction. A lunch will follow the service. Carter Lyles is pastor.

bluebull Trinity River Association hold a rally at First Church in Liberty Jan. 11 at 6:30 p.m. Paul Fregia of Vidor will preachand the Gospel Express quartet from Brenham will provide the music. For more information, call (936) 336-9232.

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