Bible Studies for Life Series for May 27: Being a peacemaker requires effort
Posted: 5/18/07
Bible Studies for Life Series for May 27
Being a peacemaker requires effort
• Genesis 50:15-21; Matthew 5:23-24; Colossians 3:12-15
First Baptist Church, Stanton
Conflict affects us all. When conflict is faced properly, reconciliation can bring people back together and give glory to God. One of the greatest pieces I ever read is a prayer by St. Francis of Assisi, which is a reminder for each of us who would be peacemakers: “Lord, make me an instrument of your peace, Where there is hatred, let me sow love; where there is injury, pardon; where there is doubt, faith; where there is despair, hope; where there is darkness, light; where there is sadness, joy; O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; to be understood as to understand; to be loved as to love. For it is in giving that we receive; it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life.”
Believers are to pursue genuine reconciliation. How do I pursue genuine reconciliation when I am in a conflict situation?
Be ready to restore (Genesis 50:15-21)
When their father Jacob died, Joseph’s brothers feared Joseph would seek revenge. They sent a message to Joseph asking for forgiveness. This message included a personal request for Joseph to forgive them. When his brothers approached him, they fell before him, declaring they were his slaves. Recognizing the evil they had done, Joseph saw the hand of God working to save many lives.
Through Joseph, God spared the lives of Jacob and his family along with the lives of the Egyptians. Joseph assured his brothers and promised to provide for them and their families. His words of kindness relieved their fears and gave them a new beginning.
Like Joseph, when we can see past our own hurt, we can begin to see God at work in our human relationships. His desire is to bring about restoration and reconciliation. We do not ignore the wrongs that have been done, but with God’s grace and help, we can move past them. The opportunities to bring restoration must be sought.
Joseph asks a classic question, “Am I in the place of God?” (Genesis 50:19). We never are in the place of God. We should be ready to restore.
Make reconciliation a priority (Matthew 5:23-24)
Jesus is serious about human relationships. Worship is a primary part of our relationship with God. If we are not in right relationship with each other, we cannot be in a right relationship with God. Jesus instructed people to leave their offerings at the altar and be reconciled with other believers.
Believers must be as serious about worship and relationships as God. When we have a broken human relationship, according to God, our worship will be disrupted to the point God will not be honored. We must make a priority of mending broken human relationships, and then we will be ready to resume our worship with God.
Notice the phrase “has something against you” (Matthew 5:23). This can refer to a just cause or to what the person thought was a valid cause. This verse speaks to an offense the worshipper has committed against another person.
It should be noted an effort at reconciliation can be attempted without being successful. The teaching of Jesus clearly instructs the believer that we should do the right thing whether or not anyone else does. We are not called to be successful—we are called to be faithful and walk with God. Worship means we get the vertical relationship right, but it does not mean we ignore the horizontal (human to human) relationships.
Forgiving completely (Colossians 3:12-15)
Paul encourages believers that Christian values such as forgiveness, love, peace and thanksgiving should mark every believer. Believers are to forgive as Christ has forgiven them. Yet, forgiveness does not automatically cancel the consequences of past actions. Sometimes the consequences have to be faced in order for genuine forgiveness to occur. Christian forgiveness is not simply based on emotions, forgetting or excusing, but it is an act of the will. One must choose to forgive. As always, Jesus leaves the choice with his followers.
The word “forgive” comes from a root word translated forgiven (v. 13), based on the word for grace. Forgiveness is an expression of grace and is not based on whether or not the forgiven person is deserving. The word “peace” (v. 15) has the same meaning as the old Hebrew word “shalom”—well-being and wholeness under God’s rule. It carries the idea of Christian harmony found in the church when people are committed to one another in Christ.
Discussion questions
• How can we make restoring human relationships a greater priority?
• Is your worship being affected today by some past wrong human relationship?
• How can we forgive those who have offended us but have now died?
• How can we find peace with ourselves and become true peacemakers?
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