RIGHT or WRONG? Homosexuals in the church
Posted: 2/16/07
RIGHT or WRONG?
Homosexuals in the church
Please help our congregation answer a couple of questions we have been discussing: “To what degree should homosexuals be accepted in church? And what role(s) should they be allowed to take in church?”
I commend your church for its conversation regarding such a sensitive and potentially divisive issue. More churches need to follow your lead in frank and open discussions of this subject as they seek God’s guidance.
Not addressing the issue ignores the reality that many, if not most, churches already have homosexuals attending services. Studies have shown about 4 percent to 12 percent of the population has homosexual tendencies. That percentage equates to between eight and 24 people for a church with 200 people in attendance. Many churches already accept homosexuals, although they have not explicitly chosen to do so.
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The struggle then is not so much with accepting homosexuals as it is with accepting “open” homosexuals. Many homosexuals have not consciously chosen their orientation, and many struggle with and resist those feelings. A congregation’s gracious acceptance of homosexuals might allow them a safe place to disclose their orientation and their struggles. They also could receive the support and encouragement of a caring people, which could help them to overcome any guilt that society and families have heaped upon them.
Churches need to be clear that they cannot bless homosexual activity, for it violates God’s ideal for sexual expression. While people may not select their orientation, they choose whether or not to be sexually active. (By the way, that statement also applies to heterosexual activity as well. Sexual desires and urges are not the driving force of the human personality.) Many never act on their homosexual feelings.
Churches need to recognize this discussion is shaped by a long history of sexual stereotypes, myths and fears. Let me dispel some of these. People with homosexual leanings are no more sexually active or promiscuous than heterosexuals. They are not inclined to make unwanted sexual advances.
The question about what role(s) the homosexual should play is more difficult. Churches have the responsibility to establish and maintain standards of godly behavior. That is part of “teaching them to observe all things.” Disagreements may arise over these standards, but we cannot deny their existence or the need for them.
A church’s policy on roles of appropriate behavior should include more sins than homosexuality. Sexual sins are not the only ones that need to be discussed when we assign responsibility. People’s attitudes toward their sins should be more determinative than which particular sins are singled out. People who flaunt their sexuality (either homosexual or heterosexual) should not be placed in roles as spiritual leaders.
Dan Bagby, in his book Crisis Ministry: A Handbook, suggests discussion of this issue ought to occur “in an atmosphere of biblical assumptions so they (congregations) may gain understanding, balance grace with responsibility, respect differences in a Christ-like way, and determine what boundaries they believe are in keeping with God’s will.”
Consensus on this issue remains elusive, and likely will remain so for many more years. A word from the Apostle Paul seems appropriate as we continue this dialogue. “Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you” (Ephesians 4:32).
David Morgan, pastor
Trinity Baptist Church
Harker Heights
Right or Wrong? is sponsored by the T.B. Maston Chair of Christian Ethics at Hardin-Simmons University’s Logsdon School of Theology. Send your questions about how to apply your faith to btillman@hsutx.edu.
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