Transitional home provides refuge for teenaged girls
Posted: 9/15/06
Celeste, 18, turned herself into the courts at age 15 in order to receive an education. Now, she is studying to be a lawyer and lives at the Buckner Transitional Girls' Home in Guatemala City. |
Transitional home provides
refuge for teenaged girls
By Jenny Pope
Buckner Baptist Benevolences
It’s a bright, golden-colored refuge that rests among the hectic streets of Guatemala City. A bus stop sits across the way, and hatchback cars and colorful buses whirl by on their way to outlying territories. Outside it’s noisy, dusty and fast-paced.
See Related Articles: • Buckner brings hope to orphans in Guatemala • Transitional home provides refuge for teenaged girls |
But inside the home is drastically different. It’s airy, open and calm. A plant-lined atrium greets guests upon entry; bedrooms line the walls with photos, stuffed animals and posters of celebrities; there’s a cozy living room with several couches and a TV; and fresh laundry flaps in the cool air outside an open kitchen.
The home is a refuge for the seven girls inside, not only from the streets of Guatemala, but also from the torment of their pasts.
Gaby, 14, tried to commit suicide at age 6 after losing her mother as an infant. She is one of the seven girls who lives at the Buckner Transitional Girls Home in Guatemala City. |
Each girl has different story—abuse, gangs, drugs, abandonment, forced prostitution. But all have the same hope for their future—success. And for the first time in their lives, they finally have a fighting chance.
Buckner Orphan Care International opened the Tran-sitional Girl’s Home in January through a partnership with Guatemalan businesswoman Isabel de Bosch, owner of a popular food chain. The home seeks to provide a place for teenaged girls to prepare for their future after life in an orphanage, and allows each girl to go to private school and receive specialized tutoring.
“This is a home for true orphans, but also for talented, beautiful girls with potential,” said Leslie Chace, Buckner Orphan Care International director of Latin American ministries. “The Lord brought us the resources and by a miracle, the house has been transformed.”
Celeste, 18, is studying to be a lawyer. But when she was 15 years old, she turned herself over to a judge to be admitted to the government orphanages. It was her only hope to receive an education, she said.
“I never went a day without my mom hitting me,” Celeste began, explaining that her mother made her drop out of school in the sixth grade to help support the family. “Even when I didn’t do anything to deserve it, she would hit me with machetes, milk crates, and even bit me sometimes. She said if I told anyone about the abuse, she would send me to a juvenile detention center. And I was always too afraid that she would hit me more.”
Buckner’s Transitional Girls’ Home in Guatemala City offers safe haven for teenage girls escaping life on the streets and the torments of their past. |
So Celeste remained silent until the fateful day, Oct. 4, 2003—her brother’s birthday—when she fled her home after yet another unexplained episode of abuse.
“I didn’t even have shoes on when I ran out of the house,” Celeste said, with teary eyes. “I was bruised all over, wearing a long skirt and a long-sleeved shirt to cover the bruises. I was just so anxious to get out of there, so I ran away.”
Celeste went to court five times, she said, but “nobody in my family wanted to take me in because my mom told them I was bad, a rebel. I knew I couldn’t go back home because my mom wouldn’t let me study. So I told the judge I would rather go to an orphanage.”
Celeste spent nearly three years at Manchen Girl’s Home in Antigua, where caregivers and Buckner staff say she was always “a good girl.”
“I learned really fast that the best thing to do was to be obedient,” she said. “I would help the staff by talking to the other girls and try to keep them from running away. Then, because I was doing well in school, I was eventually able to come here” to the transitional home.
Gaby, 14, loves to play soccer and draw. She hopes to teach or design cars one day. But when Gaby was only 6 years old, she contemplated suicide.
“My mom died when I was a year old,” she begins, explaining that since her father was placed in prison for her mother’s death, she and her siblings were shuffled from aunt to aunt most of her childhood.
“I remember one day when they took me to a community grave where my mother was buried,” she said.
“Her grave was all the way up at the top, so a man helped me climb up there to see her. Once I got to the top, all I could think was ‘I’m going to jump so I can be with my mother in heaven.’”
When Gaby was 12 years old, she began drinking and dating a gang member. Then she ran away from home. When she returned four days later, her aunt decided to place her at Manchen.
“I had a hard time” at Manchen, she said. “A lot of the girls wanted to beat me up. But one day I met an American mission team and they told me about God. They said that I was pretty because God made me that way. That was when I found God.”
Gaby started to perform better in school. She passed the fifth and sixth grade and anxiously waited to complete the seventh grade because her aunt promised that was when she would return for her.
“I kept waiting, but she never came,” Gaby said.
“So I ran away to Guatemala City and wandered the streets. I met a group of girls who would steal things and live on the streets, but I didn’t want to become like them. So I called Buckner.”
From there, Buckner worked to place Gaby into the transitional home where she has “changed a lot,” said Ada Ramirez, Buckner follow-up staff member in Guatemala.
“Gaby has a very strong character, and in the beginning she was very aggressive with me. But she has calmed down. I guess she really just needed some attention,” she said.
Though both Celeste and Gaby share turbulent pasts and deep scars, they have remained unhardened.
“Since I came to know God, I have felt more peaceful because I know that God loves me and is watching out for me,” Gaby said.
“I can finally trust God,” Celeste said. “I believe in him. I know that because I have gone through so much, God will bless me with many things. And he has. I have a house, food, friends, education—I don’t lack anything. If all goes well, I will go to college and have a career because people were here to help me.”
News of religion, faith, missions, Bible study and Christian ministry among Texas Baptist churches, in the BGCT, the Southern Baptist Convention ( SBC ) and around the world.