Family care eases a little of single mothersâ stress
Posted: 11/10/06
Family care eases a little of single mothers’ stress
By Miranda Bradley
Children at Heart Ministries
ROUND ROCK—More than volleyballs were served in the gym at First Baptist Church of Round Rock recently.
Single mothers involved in the Texas Baptist Children’s Home family care program enjoyed baked potato soup, salad and homemade cookies prepared by a professional chef in the church’s new First Life Center—a far cry from their typical Monday-night meal of ham-and-cheese sandwiches.
Professional chef Theresa Twyeffort (foreground) is assisted by her friend Lea Wilder as they prepare a meal for moms in Texas Baptist Children’s Home's family care program. |
“We’ve been hoping for community or church volunteers to offer a service like this for our program nights,” said Melanie Martinez, family care supervisor. “We are so thrilled that goal is being realized.”
Theresa Twyeffort, a professional chef, felt a calling to offer her services once a month to the program.
“After taking a tour of TBCH, I was so moved by what was happening with this ministry that I was moved to tears,” she said. “The children are so well cared for and so loved. I knew I needed to move outside my comfort zone and search for an area where I could help.”
Twyeffort, her 16-year-old daughter, Jessica, and Twyeffort’s friend Lea Wilder immediately wanted to serve with the ministry.
“I was so impressed by the home-like setting,” Wilder said. “You can tell people work there because they care, not because they are just collecting a paycheck. And the family care program was great because it gave the moms a place to get grounded so they could succeed.”
Texas Baptist Children’s Home, a Children at Heart ministry, was founded in 1950 by the Henna family of Round Rock to provide a “real home for children.” In the ’70s, the ministry extended its mission to include single-mother families. But instead of providing simply a roof overhead, the agency set out to provide opportunities for mothers to gain independence through parenting classes, job training and placement, budgeting courses and counseling.
“We want these families to leave here ready to succeed in life,” said Martinez. “That means providing them the skills necessary to make a change, to be better.”
First Baptist Church of Round Rock offers facilities free of charge for the women’s program night therapy sessions. Children are cared for in the church nursery and also provided a hot meal each week, as well as activities and games.
Twyeffort’s offer eases the burden a bit for the mothers so they can enjoy more time in group sessions.
“This way, they don’t have to stop, make their sandwiches, and then sit down to eat,” Martinez said. “They can really slow down and enjoy dinner while fellowshipping with each other.”
Martinez hopes more people will step up to fill in the weeks between Twyeffort’s expert cuisine.
“It doesn’t have to be fancy,” Martinez said. “A group could offer to purchase pizza for the ladies or bring casseroles. We just want them to have a hot meal just once a week where they don’t have to do a lot of work.”
Twyeffort knew—in one sense—the single mothers already had plenty on their plates. Often they have fled abusive spouses, financial strain or homelessness with their children. Most women in the program have few job skills, which means they often are starting from scratch.
She wanted to serve those women by easing a bit of their strain.
“Here is an example of how three people can find a way to volunteer a few hours and actually make a difference,” Twyeffort said.
The women served by family care are hungry for more than just a main dish, Martinez added. They come to group therapy to feed off one another’s strengths and bear up each other’s burdens. Dinner is just an added bonus.
“The Bible tells us to feed those who are hungry,” she said. “By meeting their physical needs, we can meet their spiritual needs more effectively.”
For more information about family care, contact Martinez at melanie.martinez@tbch.org. For more information on Texas Baptist Children’s Home and other related Children at Heart Ministries, visit www.childrenatheartministries.org.
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