Posted: 3/03/06
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Pastor Paul Wrightsman says an influx of children has brought an additional energy to Fairview Community Church, which was recovering from the effects of changing demographics in the surrounding community. The church, primarily made up of senior adults, now boasts many children, especially on Wednesdays. |
Fairview church discovers:
‘A little child shall lead them’
By George Henson
Staff Writer
COPPERAS COVE—The aptly named Fairview Community Church sits well off the main drag in Copperas Cove, next to an elementary school and in the midst of houses.
It’s what Pastor Paul Wrightsman calls a neighborhood church—a church built primarily to reach people in its immediate vicinity.
“I’ve grieved over the loss of neighborhood churches,” he said. “Even though I wasn’t a Christian, my childhood memories were of neighborhood churches—a Vacation Bible School here, a Sunday school visit from time to time, and it was always with friends who lived close by, and we’d walk on down to the little neighborhood church.”
Fairview Community Church is being revitalized as just such a neighborhood church. And consistent with Wrightsman’s memories, it’s children who are doing a lot of the inviting.
When the church began in 1959, most of its members lived in the surrounding neighborhood. As their incomes increased, however, many homeowners moved, and most houses in the area became rental properties, Wrightsman said.
The neighborhood began changing ethnically, as well, and Fairview began to decline, he continued.
“The church hadn’t really realized that and hadn’t really tried to reach out,” Wrightsman observed.
The congregation dwindled to the point that when Wrightsman was called as pastor in 2002, “they spent two weeks calling people and looking under bushes for people to come and vote, and they found 29.”
Their number had increased to around 50 about a year ago when the church decided to invite the neighborhood to a Wednesday-night meal.
A sign in front of the church offered an open invitation for soup and sandwiches. The offer of food was all the enticement some children in the neighborhood needed.
“But even hungry kids don’t get too excited about soup and sandwiches on a regular basis,” Wrightsman said.
So, the Wednesday night meal was transformed into a potluck dinner brought by the congregation, “and then it really took off,” he said. “Kids started bringing kids. That’s what kids do, and now we sometimes have 40 here.”
And it’s not just the children who are coming.
Wrightsman recalled that two of the boys got into a fistfight before the meal one Wednesday night. He separated them, but they wouldn’t calm down and continued to threaten each other.
After the police were summoned, the boys calmed down, and Wrightsman allowed them to stay to eat. Before the meal was served, one of the boys asked if he could go get a friend.
“I told him, ‘Go get him, your mother, your daddy; bring anybody you want.’ And he did,” Wrightsman said.
The boy’s mother and father stood in line to be served when the father asked Wrightsman if he called the police on his boy.
“I told him yes, and if I had to, I would do it again,” Wrightsman recalled. “He didn’t seem too happy with that response, but three weeks later, I saw that same daddy in the kitchen helping wash the dishes.”
The influx of so many children also has been an adjustment for a congregation that had been composed primarily of older adults.
“It’s gotten a lot louder around here,” Wrightsman said. “But like I told a couple of our ladies last week, it sure does sound sweet.”
One of the things that has made the volume more bearable is seeing the children and their parents also become more regular in Sunday attendance. One of the children—a recognized leader—recently accepted Christ as her Savior and was baptized.
“That has given us an additional responsibility, because now everybody wants to be baptized, and I want to baptize them, but I want to make sure that they are making legitimate faith commitments and not just following her lead. I want it to be real for them,” Wrightsman said.
The congregation also is adjusting its facilities, and the church is considering enlarging the room where the Wednesday meal is served.
The congregation—both longtime members and newcomers—have been an encouragement, Wrightsman said.
“This church has been a real eye-opener for me,” said the 69-year-old pastor, who still rides a Harley-Davidson motorcycle. “It has reinforced for me the power of prayer.
“God listens, and God answers. The only time God has not answered my prayers for this church is when he’s had a better idea.
“God is attentive to our hearts, our prayers and our work, and he always, always outgives you.”
One thing God gave Fairview Community Church before the children arrived was an influx of younger adults such as Terry Dunn, Wrightsman noted. Dunn grew up in the neighborhood, but he did not attend the church. After a career in the Navy, he returned with his wife to live in his childhood home.
One day, they took a walk and happened by Fairview. Wrightsman and his wife, Sue, were working outside on the church grounds. As the Dunns passed, Mrs. Wrightsman stopped working and asked the couple if they attended church. When they said they did not, she invited them to Fairview. They visited the next Sunday, and now Dunn serves the church as minister of education and administration. He delights in what the neighborhood children have brought to his church.
“These children have definitely raised the noise level, but with that comes a new level of energy and anticipation,” Dunn said. “And it’s also good when your comfortable routine gets shaken up and you get a fresh perspective on things.”
One person changed by the arrival of the children is Joy Baker. She leads a choir, ages 4 to 15—recently numbering 36 in rehearsal.
While the music is important, she said, the relationships she has developed are far more vital.
She recalled a conversation with a child who was baptized. The girl told Baker about how many hugs she had received.
“I asked her if that was a good thing or a bad thing, and she said it was a very good thing. But then her cousin piped up and said the church was the only place they got hugs,” she recalled.
“It doesn’t really matter what I’m able to accomplish with these kids musically, but what matters is that in the church, they know they have a place to go and know they will be loved.”
And it’s right in the neighborhood.
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