Quilts for Moldova a labor of love for volunteers_11005
Posted: 1/07/05
Quilts for Moldova a labor of love for volunteers
By Craig Bird
Baptist Child & Family Services
SAN ANTONIO–Fran Dunkum, Pam Keith and Lisa Weldon autograph each of the quilts they make for an Eastern European orphanage with a heart instead of their names.
“We decided up front that we wouldn't put any writing or identifying information in the design because that isn't really important,” explained Dunkum, a cardiac nurse at Methodist Hospital in San Antonio and a member of Trinity Baptist Church. “But we made an unbreakable rule that each quilt has to have a plainly visible heart. Those kids know Jesus loves them, but they need to know that somebody else loves them too–and every time they see the heart, they will be reminded of that truth.”
So far, the three women have completed 45 quilts and handed them over to Baptist Child & Family Services for delivery to Moldova. Three more are nearing completion, and they have enough material to make at least another 60.
| Lisa Weldon (left) and Pam Keith tie up individual quilts before packing them for shipment to orphans in Moldova. A heart is included on every quilt no matter the design to "show the child that somebody loves them" and is visible on two of the quilts. (Photos by Craig Bird) |
And it's not just any material. Those scraps and remnants are the legacy of their friend, Donna Dickey, who taught them all to quilt and who died in mid-2003 after an eight-month battle with cancer.
“She was not able to complete a bridal quilt she was making for one of her daughters, so we asked if we could finish it,” Dunkum recalled. “Then we helped sort through her things. Quilters collect a lot of material, and she had been quilting for 25 years.” Dickey's husband gave each of them four or five large bags of pieces.
Naturally, the trio began discussing the best use of the material.
“Our first project after Donna made us fall in love with quilting had been to make quilts for the children of the New York City firemen who were killed on 9/11,” Dunkum said. “Then, suddenly, she was gone too. But we wanted to do something worthy of her.”
The women also felt a pull to help people outside traditional San Antonio projects. They wanted to find a place where there was great need and limited resources, and their search led them to Moldova.
Baptist Child & Family Services, through its Children's Emergency Relief International outreach, has worked with orphanages in the former Soviet republic several years. The cash-strapped government is hard-pressed to provide even minimal food and shelter. But the quilting trio never had heard of Moldova.
That changed last January, when Marla Rushing, who works with Baptist Child & Family Services' Great Starts program, spoke at Trinity Baptist Church about her recent trip to that country.
“She mentioned that the volunteers carried blankets to sit on in the dorms and that they wound up giving them all away,” Dunkum said. “The typical bedding is World War II vintage, worn thin and badly soiled.”
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| Fran Dunkum of Trinity Baptist Church in San Antonio prepares to pack a Christmas nativity-design quilt for orphans in Moldova. |
By March, the process was under way. And in early December, the first shipment of 45 quilts was completed.
The initial quilts were scheduled to arrive in Moldova Jan. 5, along with 32 short-term volunteers working with Children Emergency Relief International. Most of the team members are from Crossroads Baptist Church in San Antonio. Others are from Trinity Baptist Church in San Antonio, Currey Creek Baptist Church in Boerne, Kingwood Baptist Church in Houston and others from churches in Tennessee and Missouri.
The women quilted independently most of the time because of work schedules. Keith took advantage of times her husband was out of town with his job and “a week waiting for my grandson to be born” to put her quilts together. During one week, she completed six quilts.
Dunkum did much of her work from 2 to 4 a.m. after coming home from her hospital shift. Weldon, Dunkum's daughter, carved out time “after my family was asleep and everything else I needed to do for them was done–after 11 p.m.” On her frequent visits with her mom, she would cut the squares while Dunkum pieced them together.
“Lisa is also our designated 'main pray-er,'” Dunkum said. “Pam and I really rely on her to pray for us to have the time and energy we need to keep going.”
About two-thirds of the first batch of quilts was machine-quilted by 78-year-old Margaret Hiestand, who lives on Lake Buchanan. The San Antonio women heard about her through a quilting magazine and decided to hire some of the work done.
“When I found out they were doing this for an orphanage, I offered to do it for free,” said Hiestand, a member of Buchanan West Baptist Church. “But they wouldn't hear of it since it is how I make my living. But they did let me donate the backing for the 30 quilts I've done so I could be a part of it too.”
Each quilt is unique, varying both in size and design. Some are even hand-tied. “We talked about trying to make them uniform, but we decided that since each child is different it would be OK if the quilt had distinctive personalities too,” Weldon explained. “And we know the Moldovan Christians who run the Children's Emergency Relief International program will give the right quilt to the right child.”
Steve Davis, executive director of Children's Emergency Relief International, has no doubt the children who receive the quilts will value them highly.
“The girls already enjoy doing needlepoint and often give volunteers dollies and other things they've made, so they appreciate the time, energy and love that go into gifts like these quilts. The winters there are bitterly cold, and the quilts will bring physical warmth as well as being constant reminders of the love that American Christians have for them,” he said.
“Beyond actual hugs, I don't know a better way to feel love than to be able to wrap yourself in someone else's love and prayers when you go to bed at night.”





