Book Reviews_11005
Posted: 1/07/05
Book Reviews
Safe Haven Marriage: Building a Relationship You Want to Come Home To
by Archibald D. Hart and Sharon Hart Morris (W Publishing Group)
This father-daughter team presents a readable guide to deepening intimacy in marriage and repairing emotional wounds that struggling marriages often create.
“Safe Haven marriages” describes relationships built on trust, emotional availability and sensitive responsiveness. Hart and Morris provide a helpful exposition of these qualities, enabling couples to understand how we emotionally connect with others (attachment theory) and how these emotional connections can be nurtured, strained or broken in marriage. The ideas and suggestions are clearly and simply, helping professionals and nonprofessionals understand the concepts and how they relate to building emotional connections. Enriched with case studies, readers can identify with the struggles of the couples featured in each section of the book.
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This book offers practical steps for fostering emotional closeness and healing hurts of the heart. It is a good resource for couples who want to deepen their emotional closeness. It also can be a great supplement for couples repairing a strained or broken marriage relationship.
Michael R. Chancellor, pastor
Crescent Heights Baptist Church
Abilene
Imperial Hubris: Why the West is Losing the War on Terror
by Anonymous (Brassey's)
This book is a “must read” for every American citizen eligible to vote! Nationally elected officials as well as all those who wish to join the informed conversation regarding U.S. policies in response to terrorism will find a shocking expose´ of mishandled intelligence, misunderstood issues and misguided policies by our American government.
The author, a senior U.S. intelligence official who for nearly 20 years focused on terrorism, militant Islam and Afghanistan, insists Osama bin Laden is leading a defensive Jihad, or Islamic war, against America. Contrary to the robotic rhetoric which claims Muslims hate us because we are free, the author argues we are hated as a consequence of our policies and actions in the Muslim world.
The author identifies six U.S. policies bin Laden consistently refers to as anti-Muslim, which constitute an attack on Muslim faith, land and brethren. The author concludes by offering a way forward with some serious suggestions for debate.
J. Randall O'Brien, professor and chair
Department of Religion
Baylor University
Never Mind the Joneses: Building Core Christian Values in a Way That Fits Your Family
by Tim Stafford (InterVarsity Press)
You can always depend on Tim Stafford for well-written and practical Christian books. This one on parenting and family issues now tops the list.
Stafford gives us a treasure chest of application for passing on core Christian values through the particular habits and attitudes, routines and rituals of our families. His familiarity with real family life gives the book a tone of flexibility and grace. Urgency is here, but it's not too preachy. Conviction, but it's not too legalistic.
The author's life with the Bible generates a wise and solid set of 14 biblical core values. He devotes a chapter to each one, reflecting on its importance and suggesting many options for building it into your family's culture. The chapter on truthfulness alone is worth the price of the book.
While American culture stumbles over the popularity of shaky morals, this book offers parents a solid grip.
Rick Willis, pastor
First Baptist Church
Lampasas
Heart Shift: The 2 Degree Difference That Will Change Your Heart, Your Home, and Your Health
by John Trent
“I am reading this book for two reasons. First, during this time of the year, I enjoy reading that will help me reflect and consider changes for the new year. Second, as part of a research project, I am learning about the theology of change and how it might be applied to organizational transformation.”
Albert Reyes
BGCT president
San Antonio
Christ And Culture
by H. Richard Niebuhr
“I'm currently rereading this classic because I'm interested in the seductive dance that's occurring between the Christian faith community and culture–and the long-term effect it will have on the church's prophetic speech. I think Niebuhr's typology merits examination through a different set of lenses.”
Michael Bell
BGCT first vice president
Fort Worth
Franklin and Winston: An Intimate Portrait of an Epic Friendship
by Jon Meacham
“I enjoyed Meacham's discussion of personal relationships as they pertain to international diplomacy. We understand that in our personal lives we work better with people we enjoy. We forget that the same goes for those who lead us.”
Stacy Conner
BGCT second vice president
Muleshoe


Kevin Dinnin and other Texas Baptist Men examine ways to help in a refugee camp housing 1,000 refugees of the tsunami near Batticaloa in east Sri Lanka. This camp is expected to swell to many times that number by the end of January.
Workers with Baptist Child & Family Services sort donated medication that will be distributed in the Batticaloa region of east Sri Lanka. The team is in the nation to provide emergency shelters for orphans and train residents to care for children who lost their families when a series of tsunamis hit.
Bill Gresso of Northlake Baptist Church in Garland and Dick Talley test a well on the east coast of Sri Lanka near Batticaloa. Texas Baptist Men workers are assessing where they can use water puririfiers.
Texas Baptist Men volunteers and team from Baptist Child & Family Services worship with a group of believers near Batticaloa, Sri Lanka. 
