Cybercolumn for 4/12 by Jeanie Miley: A necessary task in changing times_41904
Posted: 4/12/04
CYBERCOLUMN:
A necessary task in changing times
By Jeanie Miley
On my way to work, I made my customary turn onto a back street, only to discover that still one more street is “under repair,” delaying my arrival back at my office by 20 minutes.
I spent that 20 minutes going over my usual routes in this city, Houston, trying to think of one part of my usual traffic pattern that isn’t “under repair.” I failed, and the sad thing is that the biggest road upheaval is going to be “under repair” for at least three years! Between my house and the places I go on a daily basis, there will be traffic snarls and delays for three years.
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Sometimes, I feel that life on the streets and roads of my city reflects the larger world in which I live and move. It seems that what I used to rely on as “stabilizers” in my life are also in transition, under repair, and, in some cases, under new management or under all new construction!
We are, indeed, riding the rapids of change at a breakneck speed. That which we used to count on to be there for us may or may not be there for us today, but if it is, it is likely that it will be there in a different form.
Banks and telephone companies change names over night, and then, again. Hospitals are in a constant flux, trying to keep up with technology and the demands of patients and their challenging new diseases. Education at every level is being challenged to keep up with the times, and yet, before educators can learn one method, that method runs out of time.
As a friend said to me when my favorite meat market was bought out by a chain, “Honey, that which you thought was nailed down has come undone.”
In the midst of the chaos, one would hope that one’s church would be the stable and stabilizing force, but, much to our chagrin, even that hallowed part of our lives is in transition. What we thought was permanent and unchanging in our religious lives is being challenged by the new, the different and what may feel to be the strange by those of us who are the staunch protectors and fervent defenders of the status quo, the establishment and the havens of rest.
“Adjust! “ demands a funny-looking creature hand-painted on a plaque I bought on vacation, and I look at him and smile, for his wise counsel seems a little more compassionate and understanding than the sometimes hostile, “Get over it!” I hear when I’m up against that which I cannot change and, often, do not understand and am resisting.
The important thing to do for those of us who navigate the challenging roads of life is to keep our own cars in repair, stay conscious while we’re driving and have some soothing music or educational tapes in the car for those times when the streets and freeways become parking lots.
And the necessary tasks for those of us who are still up and pretending to run our lives is to be intentional, consistent and tender in the care of our own souls. Transitional times are times to draw near to the Source. When the outer forms are shifting and the foundations of our lives are trembling, the most important thing of all is to take care of one’s own inner life, to stay awake at the wheel of life and to surrender to the creative, transforming, liberating Power of the One who does, after all, hold the entire world in his hands.
Jeanie Miley is an author and columnist and a retreat and workshop leader. She is married to Martus Miley, pastor of River Oaks Baptist Church in Houston, and they have three adult daughters. Got feedback? Write her at Writer2530@aol.com .



