EDITORIAL: Christians must not block path to Middle East peace_60203

Posted: 5/30/03

EDITORIAL:
Christians must not block path to Middle East peace

Some U.S. Christians have tried to draw detours on the “road map” to peace in the Middle East. They need to step back from the table and allow residents of that region, who actually must follow that map, to negotiate its course with help from advocates of lasting peace.

For many years, Christians who think they have figured out the scenario for the end of time and believe the geography of Israel and Palestine holds a key to that scenario have inserted their influence into Middle Eastern affairs. While they are not the sole cause of Israeli-Palestinian bloodshed, their views and their involvement have hindered the peace process. On the one hand, they have given intransigent agents within Israel the sense they can act with impunity, believing strong political forces within the United States will back them, no matter what. On the other hand, they have exacerbated many Palestinians' hopelessness-born anger, feeling they have nothing to lose and will be condemned, no matter what.

Does any group have a right to impose its theological understanding of history upon the peace process in Israel and Palestine?

People of all faiths, particularly Christians, Jews and Muslims, should be concerned about and strive for peace in the Middle East. The strip of land along the Jordan River is holy ground. More importantly, however, all the people who live there were created in God's image and should be able to live in peace, without fear of suicide bombers or military mortar.

The conflict started thousands of years ago. Jews, Muslims and Christians all look back to Abraham as the first patriarch of their faith. They point to a couple of starry nights in antiquity, when God promised Abraham his descendants would be as numerous as the stars in the sky and would dwell in a land God would give to them (Genesis 12, 15). Jews and Christians recognize the fulfillment of that promise in Isaac (Genesis 18, 21), the son of Abraham and his wife, Sarah, and Isaac's descendants, who became the 12 tribes of Israel. Others note Abraham's other son, Ishmael, born of Sarah's Egyptian handmaiden, Hagar, as the fulfillment of God's promise to produce descendants who became “too many to count” (Genesis 16). At Sarah's urging, Abraham sent Ishmael and Hagar into the wilderness, but God looked down on them in mercy and promised to make “a great nation” of Ishmael (Genesis 21). Despite God's blessing on both sides, the offspring of Isaac and Ishmael have fought almost ever since.

Many people today, including millions of conservative evangelical Christians, point to God's promise of land to Abraham and God's fulfillment of a “nation” through Isaac as divine sanction for the modern nation of Israel. Others counter that claim for various reasons. Some note that in Christ, God made a new covenant with God's people, and followers of Christ are the “new Israel,” leaving the Israelis' claim theologically groundless. Others stress the modern nation of Israel is quite secular and carries no special connection to a divine promise of existence. Still others point to the Palestinians' long occupation of the land and conclude Palestinians hold at least as much right to the land as Jews.

Many American Christians have written the modern nation of Israel a political blank check for yet another reason. Their interpretation of the Book of Revelation leads them to believe the pivotal events at the end of time will take place in the Holy Land. Consequently, they believe this end-times scenario can only be completed if the Jews control the region. Inspired by their theological understanding of the apocalypse, they want the region to be controlled by Israel.

Unfortunately, some of the gravest political atrocities of all time have been conducted under the name of Yahweh, Christ and Allah on that sacred but sin-sodden soil. This poses an important question: Does any group have a right to impose its theological understanding of history upon the peace process in Israel and Palestine?

The answer is no, for several reasons:

The theological position of any one group might–and very well may–be wrong. For example, the dispensational premillennialism that drives some Christians to endorse Israeli hardliners without question is not a majority view among conservative, Bible-believing Christians. Fervent Christians hold a variety of views about the end times, all of which leave room for various interpretations of current Middle Eastern political philosophy. And that says nothing of the strongly held theological views of Jews and Muslims.

bluebull A rigid eschatological understanding that presumes God can work under only one set of political circumstances borders on–if not crosses over into–idolatry. God is bigger than 21st century political borders. Furthermore, Jesus taught that only God the Father knows the time and place of the Second Coming and the end of the age. Political attempts to engineer history so that God is bound to act in a certain way contradict Jesus' teachings and strike at the sin of Eden–humanity's attempt to take the place of God.

bluebull All the people who live in the Holy Land have been made in God's image and are precious in God's sight. Yes, most U.S. Christians feel a close affinity for Israel and wish to see Jews there living free and secure. However, the Palestinians also have a right to safety and security. Children and civilians on both sides have been the victims of violence. As people who worship the Prince of Peace, we should desire to see the peace of the Holy Land secured for all who dwell there.

The Holy Land strains our capacity for hope. The pages of its history are drenched in blood, and the most recent chapter is as stained as any. Yet we who see that land as sacred should pray and advocate for peace upon its peoples.
–Marv Knox
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CYBERCOLUMN: Music and worship_simpson_60203

Posted 5/30/03

CYBERCOLUMN:
Music and worship

By Berry D. Simpson

I recently attended a Sunday evening service in a Midland-area church, and it was the loudest worship service I ever experienced (unless I count that one Sunday morning in a premier Dallas church when the organist pinned me to the pew, blew my hair straight back and rendered me unable to speak due to the compression waves moving through my windpipe). I've been to a few very loud rock-and-roll concerts, including Rock the Desert here in Midland, but I was expecting the high volume on those occasions. This time in this church, I was caught completely off guard. Maybe the fault was mine for being on the front row of the church very near the speakers.

I must say the praise band was excellent. They were solid musicians and showed long hours of practice. Everyone else in the church was having a great time singing with the band and praising God. It's true that I thought they were singing the same simple chorus over and over, forever and ever, and I longed for a hymn or ballad where the words changed occasionally, but everyone else seemed to be enjoying this powerful experience. I have no reason to doubt that their worship was authentic and true and sincere. They were in the right place doing the right thing; I was the one who didn't belong.

However, in general, I enjoy the guitar-band pop-style of contemporary church music, and given a choice I will almost always chose a guitar song over an organ song.

Berry D. Simpson

I do remember one time when I thought an organ was not only the exact worship instrument, but also the only instrument capable of doing justice to a song.

We were in Washington, D.C., on a family vacation, and it was Sunday morning when we went to visit the National Cathedral. As we walked up the sidewalk to the church, I could hear the early service ending and the pipe organ playing “A Mighty Fortress is Our God.” As soon as I heard those powerful chords, I broke into a trot toward the cathedral. I wanted to feel that huge organ reverberate against those massive cathedral walls, and it was worth the run up the sidewalk and into the narthex in order to hear it. That is a great song, and it reminds me of the majesty and power and timelessness of God, and whenever I sing it, I imagine that I am standing in a long line of Christian brothers and sisters stretching back to Martin Luther and forward to heaven, and together we are all praising God in full voice. It is wonderful, and a guitar and drum kit can't make that song swing.

But those are all my personal reactions to musical styles and have nothing to do with worshiping God. Rick Warren wrote about worship and music: “Frankly, the music style you like best says more about you–your background and personality–than it does about God.”

Music that irritates me and pushes me away from God might do the exact opposite for someone else. God made us all with different tastes with different styles, and he wants us to worship him from the authentic expression of our heart.

Currently, my church is using a song at the close of our Sunday morning services that was recorded by a horn-blowing rock band when I was in high school. The song is “I've Been Searching,” and it is by Chicago, and it is a great song, even if very few people would expect to hear it in church. However, when I hear the lyrics: “I've been searching for so long to find an answer, now I know my life has meaning,” I realize Chicago told the story of my entire life. I don't know the spiritual condition of the composer of that song, and I doubt when it was released they expected it would ever be used in church, but their original intent is not the point. Chicago tapped into an eternal truth with that song, our search for meaning, and the deep meaning of those lyrics can't be understood except in a spiritual context.

Just like Pharaoh didn't understand God's message in his dreams until Joseph explained it to him, Chicago might not know the real meaning of their own song except as God reveals it. Hearing that song in church makes me worship God, and makes me thank him for guiding me in my search.

Berry Simpson, a Sunday School teacher at First Baptist Church in Midland, is a petroleum engineer, writer, runner and member of the city council in Midland.




COMMENTARY: Start with a huugg_cosby_60203

Posted: 6/04/03

COMMENTARY:
Start with a huugg

By Terry Cosby

Dallas has a lot of concrete and asphalt. It has a lot of people, too. I saw a few of them recently.

Going to the oncologist's office is never fun. We took my mother-in-law for a checkup. Sometimes, it's OK when you leave and you've gotten pretty good news, as we did. Other people I worry about.

A family came in, 30-something mom and dad with two girls. One about 8 the other about 5. Which one had cancer? They were all too young and healthy-looking. It was the dad. Mom registered him, and he went on to the lab. What must he be thinking as he looked at two young kids, a pretty wife, and fighting cancer? If I'd seen him in another place, I'd have never known about his fight.

Isn't that the truth about everyone? We just never know what people are carrying, do we?

In the same office, a 40-plus-year-old man shuffled in with several family members. They were not from Dallas. The whole family was dressed in western attire. One lady, either his sister or sister-in-law, was large and in charge with big hair. She looked like someone's fun aunt. The man with the cancer looked ashen, shaky. He had on a nice shirt, blue jeans, boots and a cap to hide the chemo-baldness. She was on a cell phone and was a bit loud: “Hi, we just got him to the doctor's office. He's been practicing walking. He's getting pretty good. …” They called him back to the exam room. He stood shakily and moved haltingly toward the door. He stumbled a bit and hit the door facing with his forehead and eye. I turned away. The family was silent a moment. The brother took his arm to guide him back.

We can think we've learned to dance around our enemy, but just then he trips us up.

We met our boys, Clay and Matt in Dallas. It was good to see them. After a little shopping, Clay said he wanted a shake from Jakes. I found the little joint he knows about and pulled around the building to the drive-through. This building looks like it fits more in Hereford than Dallas. I pull around thinking, “Good. There are no other cars in line. This will be quick.” No cars in line, but a Jazzy, one of those electric wheelchairs, is at the drive-through. The lady was large, very large. I could see her leg dangling off the side of the wheelchair. It was purple and black with sores, some bandaged, some not. She battles diabetes. She has a dog. I could see it in the crook of her arm. It is a Chihuahua. She got her sack of burgers, fries and her drink and drove off.

I thought: “Where are her friends. Where is her family?” Very likely, they were in her arms.

I went to Golfsmith for the first time. I could afford nothing. I don't have a sand wedge. I found the cheapest one in the store. I had a 15-percent-off coupon. The guy at the check-out in front of me bought a $199 three-wood. He had no coupon. The cashier told him, “Good luck with that this weekend.”

I placed my $25 sand wedge on the counter and presented my 15-percent-off coupon. It is now the second most expensive club I own.

He asked, “Is that all?”

“Yes.”

He took my money, handed me the change and wedge and said nothing as I left. I want to practice with my wedge and give new meaning to the term “wedgie.”

Pam was going to make her mother a fresh strawberry pie. We went to the store. Albertson's had strawberries, two baskets for $3. Good deal. We grabbed what she needed and went to the check-out. While I was fumbling with the debit card, the cashier took note of Pam. This lady sounded and looked a lot like Queen Latifa.

She said, “Ma' am, are your all-rrite? (Clay later said she said that like she thought we must be beating her.) You look soo saad. You look like you need a huugg.”

We laughed. I got some extra money. She said, “Y'all goin' to the show?”

“Well, I guess we could. Do you have any suggestions?”

“Go see ‘Bringin' Down the House' with Steve Martin and Queen Latifa. It's funnnie. … I'm goin' back as soon as I get off here.”

The more I thought about it and the folks I saw in Dallas, they all needed a huugg. More than that, whether in Dallas or Hereford, they need Jesus.

You might start with a huugg,

Terry Cosby is pastor of First Baptist Church in Hereford

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Rick McClatchy to lead CBF Texas_60903

Posted: 6/06/03

Rick McClatchy to lead CBF Texas

By Mark Wingfield

Managing Editor

Rick McClatchy has been named the first full-time coordinator of Cooperative Baptist Fellowship Texas.

The Texas native has spent the last decade in Oklahoma, where since 1995 he has been coordinator of the Cooperative Baptist Fellowship of Oklahoma.

McClatchy, 44, is a graduate of Howard Payne University and Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, where he earned a doctor of philosophy degree in church history.

He previously served as pastor of University Baptist Church in Shawnee, Okla., Woodcreek Baptist Church in Brownwood, First Baptist Church of Mullin and Rockwood Baptist Church of Rockwood.

“Rick brings a broad knowledge of the cooperative Baptist movement and has had experience as coordinator with CBF Oklahoma,” noted Duane Brooks, pastor of Tallowood Baptist Church in Houston and chairman of the Texas search committee. “He has demonstrated his commitment to CBF and will provide positive leadership in assisting the state coordinating council in building a great future for CBF Texas.”

McClatchy also expressed his commitment to the CBF movement as “a group of progressive, grace-filled Baptists striving to be the presence of Christ in the world.”

Nationally, the CBF formed in 1991 in reaction to what many of its adherents call a “fundamentalist takeover” of the Southern Baptist Convention. State affiliates since have sprung up, working most vigorously in states where existing Baptist conventions have followed the path of the new SBC leadership.

Texas Baptists, while strongly resisting the rightward pull of the SBC, have not to this point fielded a strong state CBF organization.

McClatchy expressed hope that CBF Texas might become “a force for positive leadership among Texas Baptists.” This could happen, he said, if CBF-related churches became role models for the state.

He pledged support for the work of the Baptist General Convention of Texas but also said CBF Texas must expand its witness to help the broader Southwestern region of the United States, including New Mexico, Arizona and Southern California.

“Texas CBF will play a crucial role for the CBF movement in the West and needs to responsibly move forward to accept the challenge,” he said in a statement to the search committee.

McClatchy will create a CBF Texas office in the San Antonio area. Currently, the organization's administrative coordinator, Judy Battles, works from Arlington.

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ANOTHER VIEW: Huge farms harvest ethical issues _farley_60903

Posted: 6/06/03

ANOTHER VIEW:
Huge farms harvest ethical issues

By Gary Farley

Even while the small textile and electronics plants of rural America have been closing, modern agriculture has become increasingly industrialized.

Traditionally, family farms produced a healthy assortment of row crops, forage and livestock. Presently, they are being replaced with massive operations that specialize in one or two products. De-industrialization in one facet of the rural economy is being accompanied by re-industrialization in the agricultural sector.

Gary Farley

Recent tours of the major agricultural operations in my western Alabama county have taken me to pig nurseries where two workers are raising 4,000 piglets inside large, enclosed sheds. Due to careful genetic work, each pig parlor resident looks like every other inhabitant. The ideal is a lean, meaty porker.

After about two months, these pigs are transported to other, similar facilities where they join as many as 6,000 pigs to be fed for several more months until they are ready for slaughter by a major packing company. Typically, these facilities are operated by three men. Huge amounts of waste are generated by these “finishing” plants. It is liquefied and sprayed on hay fields as fertilizer.

We visited one of many farms with as many as 10 buildings in which several thousand baby chicks are fed constantly. In about two months, they become large enough to be taken to processing plants and turned into chicken nuggets, strips and planks. In most instances, one or two families operate these new poultry factories.

Many personal, social and environ-mental issues accompany the produce of America's industrial farms.

This farm also raises cattle. The litter from the chicken houses is cured and fed to the steers as part of their ration. They are sold and shipped to feed lots to be finished on grain. The farmer told us this process helps make it possible for him to stay in business. Several other operations do likewise.

Down the road, we visited a dairyman who, with the help of one employee, feeds and milks 300 cows daily. The cows spend their days on concrete. Their forage and grain is brought to them. Records are kept of how much butter fat each cow produces. When she does not come up to standard, the cow is culled and sent to the slaughterhouse. While this may seem like a huge operation, other dairies handle thousands of cows.

Finally, we visited the 29 catfish ponds of an extended family. They shared with us about the efficiency with which the fish convert feed to protein. Each pond produces thousands of fish each year. The family spokesman complained about how similar fish are raised in cages in a Vietnam river. The stream is highly polluted, so these scavenger fish have a diet of waste and garbage. American growers of catfish are protesting their import to the American markets, where they are sold at a price with which American producers cannot compete.

I have come to know many of the farmers through these tours. I have worshipped with them in their churches. I have eaten with them in their homes. We work together on community projects. They are good and godly people. They are not greedy. They are not getting rich. They have seen many of their neighbors go under financially.

They are committed to being good stewards of God's creation. Farming is their life. Most are doing what they believe they need to do to survive.

They are caught up in the industrialization of American agriculture, where several ethical issues present themselves:

bluebull A few giant corporations control the processing and distribution of food in our nation and in much of the world. They have become “vertically integrated,” which means they control enough stages of the production process to control prices generally. Most of the farms I visited are growing or producing under “contracts” with the big agricultural processors. The farmers have made large investments in facilities, and they must keep their contracts or lose the farm. Few have any options as to whom they can sell their products. They work long hours and carry deep debt. It is not an easy life.

bluebull Industrialization of agriculture has called for standardization of plants and animals. While this may bring economies in processing, it tends to limit the gene pool, which in turn makes world food supplies vulnerable to the emergence of a disease that current varieties of plants or animals might not be able to resist.

bluebull The industrialized farm needs a much smaller work force to produce products. But people need work. When this trend is coupled with the trend to de-industrialize rural communities, many areas are in danger of drying up and dying.

bluebull The concentration of large numbers of animals in a confined place raises issues concerning the contamination of the environment.

Americans spend a smaller percentage of their income for food than most any nation. Unfortunately, there are many personal, social and environmental costs that do not appear on the bill when we check out at the grocery store.

Gary Farley is partner in the Center for Rural Church Leadership in Carrollton, Ala. This column is distributed by EthicsDaily.com, the online publication of the Baptist Center for Ethics

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DOWN HOME: The kid’s home; we adjusted OK_60903

Posted: 6/06/03

DOWN HOME:
The kid's home; we adjusted OK

Sometimes, the worst part of any new event is all the “expert” information you get ahead of time.

Take medical procedures, please. If you've ever had surgery and other people knew about it in advance, you probably heard enough worst-case scenarios to fill several episodes of “ER.”

Years ago, I had a hernia repaired, and several of my friends found out in advance. They managed to remember every stitches-ripping malfunction and every gauze-left-in-the-gizzard malpractice known to medical science. Turns out, the operation and recuperation were a walk around the block (just what the doctor ordered) compared to listening to my buddies recite everything that could go wrong.

MARV KNOX
Editor

All that came to mind this spring as we anticipated the return of our oldest daughter, Lindsay, from her first year at college.

“Oh, you'll have a terrible adjustment,” folks with older kids would tell her mother, Joanna, and me. “Once they've been 'on their own,' they have the dickens of a time learning to settle back into the family routine.”

They predicted most of the problems would revolve around curfew, or the lack of it. “When they're at school, they come and go as they please,” veteran parents would say. “They just hate to give up that freedom.”

Well, I have to say I needed about five hours to “adjust” to Lindsay coming home from Hardin-Simmons University this summer. That's about how long it took us to load the rest of her stuff in our cars (she had hers almost fully packed before I arrived), drive home to Lewisville and unpack.

Ta-da! Our girl was home for the summer.

OK, sometimes she's not home when I want to go to bed. But Jo and I learned a couple of things this past school year while she was away: First, we trust this kid to make good decisions. Second, when she was gone, we couldn't sit up waiting for her to get in for the night, because we didn't know when she got in for the night, and we don't have to wait up now. We leave the den light on, and she turns it off when she comes home. We all sleep better.

Now, I must admit, Jo has heard a line (Lindsay hasn't tried it on me yet) that's new this summer: “But I'm almost an adult.”

Sorry, kiddo. “Almost” only counts in horseshoes and hand grenades. “Almost” doesn't pay tuition bills or make the car note. As parents, we still have a little clout.

Fortunately, I've noticed the arrangement isn't purely financial. After a school year away, eating cafeteria food, washing her own clothes and taking care of herself, Lindsay seems to appreciate us more than ever.

And you know what? I appreciate her more, too. Man, I missed her when she was gone. Every day, I thank God for Lindsay and her sister, Molly, and one more summer together.

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EDITORIAL: Take steps to strengthen, lengthen ministers’ tenures_60903

Posted: 6/06/03

EDITORIAL:
Take steps to strengthen, lengthen ministers' tenures

What enables a minister to stay with a church a long time? Two articles in this week's Standard explore that theme, as some of Texas Baptists' longest-tenured pastors and a minister of music discuss their calling and careers. Their stories build a solid case for investing many years of ministry in one church.

Several personal qualities seem to help these ministers remain effective in their churches through many years. They're patient and mature. They focus on preaching and ministry. They work hard to stay current inprofessional disciplines. They handle conflict well. They love their people.

But long, successful tenures are not the domain of the minister alone. Like any other relationship, the bond between ministers and churches thrives on reciprocity. Your church can take several steps to strengthen and lengthen the service of your ministers, whether you only have a pastor or a large staff:

Long, successful tenures are not the domain of the minister alone. Like any other relationship, the bond between ministers and churches thrives on reciprocity.

Pray for them. Prayer “works” on at least two levels. One is divine mystery, the way God moves among us when we pray. The other is interior and more personal, the way we ourselves change when we pray. Churches that pray for their ministers and ministers who pray for their churches seem to grow toward each other, understand each other and sublimate their individual wills out of respect for each other.

bluebull Love them and their families. If you pray for them, you'll be more likely to love them. Love often is an act of will. Sometimes, this is hard, perhaps because love involves trust and a previous minister has been unloving or broken trust. But most ministers and their families are starved for a loving church and will multiply the love they give in return.

bluebull Let them be themselves. So, you think your pastor has a quirky personality. Guess what? So do plenty of people in your church (maybe even you). Too often, churches judge ministers and their families by unfair standards. Yes, ministry is a divine calling, and we have a right to expect upstanding moral and Christlike behavior. But they're people too. They have a right to their own styles and tastes and idiosyncracies, all the things that make people unique and fascinating. Let your ministers down off the pedestal or the shelf and allow them to be authentic people among you. You'll find they're often the kind of folks you like for friends, in your home, down by the lake, out at the ballpark.

bluebull Pay them. Lindell Harris, the late Bible professor at Hardin-Simmons University who trained generations of Texas Baptist ministers, was fond of saying, “A pastor who does his job can never be paid enough; a pastor who doesn't do his job almost always is paid too much.” Of course, church finances can be tight, but so are family finances. Ministers don't pay any less for children's braces, groceries or electricity than the rest of us. They can serve more effectively when they see a tangible expression of the church's appreciation and when they don't have to worry about making ends meet.

bluebull Take care of them. This is a corollary to fair pay. Too many churches lump benefits, such as medical insurance and annuity, into one sum with salary and force the minister to pick and choose which he gets. So, when insurance goes up 18 percent, he gets a pay cut. When a child enters college, he passes on preparing for retirement. Ministers deserve better, and churches should expect more of themselves.

bluebull Let them rest. Burnout is a serious occupational hazard in ministry. Pastors and other ministers who remain effective for many years serve churches that enable them to take care of their natural need for spiritual, emotional and physical rejuvenation. Few churches are able to offer sabbaticals, but churches ought to be sure to give their ministers several weeks of vacation, including weekends, each year. And policies ought to explicitly ensure that they get one weekday off each week. Sure, many laypeople attend church several hours on Sunday and still work five days a week. But Sunday is most ministers' hardest day of the week, and many of them put in 12 or more hours of intense work. They need and deserve rest.

bluebull Serve alongside them. We call them “ministers,” but we're all called to ministry. Nothing boosts their spirits like serving alongside laypeople who respond to God's leadership to work and witness for the cause of Christ.
–Marv Knox
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CYBERCOLUMN: Can we keep from singing?_younger_60903

Posted 6/07/03

CYBERCOLUMN:
Can we keep from singing?

By Brett Younger

The persistent demand throughout the Bible that we sing may at first seem cruel to those of us whose musical gifts do not fill the buckets in which we cannot carry a tune. The cacophonous among us have learned to sing off-key at a volume that doesn't draw attention with a rhythm that only we recognize.

Fortunately for the disharmonious, singing—;at least the kind of singing described in Scripture—;has little to do with quality of voice and everything to do with openness of spirit. The tone deaf in Ephesus were glad to hear the Apostle Paul say their “singing and making melody to God” was to take place “in their hearts.” It's comforting for some of us to know that singing is not about what gets to the ear, so much as it is about what penetrates our souls. Maybe every now and then, just to make that clear, pastors should sing solos. Or maybe not.

Brett Younger

We become too sensible to sing. We mistakenly admire efficiency more than spirit. We have a preoccupation with what seems useful. Without a song in our hearts, we become dull people, tempted to baptize our grouchiness and call it maturity. The opposite of singing is not silence, but critical restraint. Hell is the refusal of the heart that will not join in the melody of grace. God, deliver us from being the kind of rigid, clenched-teeth people who try to be more spiritual, more earnest than God. Faith doesn't burden us with the heaviness of the world but gives us a lightness of spirit.

Have you heard how it is that angels fly? G.K. Chesterton said, “Angels can fly because they take themselves so lightly.” Conversely, someone suggested that Satan fell to hell by the sheer weight of gravity. He took himself so seriously. Making melody in our hearts leaves us less pretentious, artificial and scared. Friedrich Nietzsche said, “Without music, life would be a mistake.” Without music, life would be angrier and more selfish.

If there's no music bursting within us, if what's in our heart is not a melody, then we need to open ourselves again to the joy God has offered. The Christian hope is to be sung. We cannot explain the grace of God, and music comes closest to expressing the inexpressible. Music picks up where words fail.

That's why when you open the Bible you hear music: The prophet Miriam, tambourine in hand, singing at the Exodus; King David auditioning musicians to lead in worship; psalmists writing symphonies for harps, lyres, trumpets, timbrels, strings, pipes, and loud clashing cymbals (never a mention of guiet, soothing cellos). The hymns of the early church are sprinkled through the New Testament. At the annunciation, Mary bursts into the “Magnificat.” At Jesus' birth, a choir of angels break into song. Paul and Silas have Favorite Hymn Night in prison. In Revelation, “The Hallelujah Chorus” ushers in the kingdom of God. On virtually every page, there is the music of God above the ordinary, the song of the holy that transcends what is expected.

A theology student went to the philosopher Paul Tillich with some nagging questions about faith. Tillich responded to this young person by playing a recording of “Credo (I Believe)” from Bach's B Minor Mass. “Credo” does not explain the Nicene Creed, but surrounds it with violins, trumpets, flutes, oboes and voices. Tillich realized that the most satisfactory answers to that student's questions were more likely to be found in music than in sharper reasoning.

God loves us enough to invite us to sing. Is there any one of us so sunk into sinful, sullen silence that we cannot, that we will not, praise God for such love?

We have a song that we need to sing. There are people who don't just live but sing life—4-year-olds on their good days, poor people who don't consider themselves poor, truly funny comedians, the best writers, genuine Christians, the ones who sing alleluia for the good they have been given.

In the early 1960s, when racial conflict was first erupting in the Deep South, a Southern white person went to where the trouble was hottest to see for himself what was going on. He watched African-Americans asking for their rights and watched them being beaten back. He returned home, and a friend asked about what he had seen.

He said: “It looks bad. The culture's against them. The laws are against them. The FBI is against them.”

His friend said, “So, you think they're going to lose?”

“No, I think they're going to win.”

“You just said the laws are against them, the FBI is against them, and the whole culture is against them. Why do you think they'll win?”

“They have this song.”

We have a song, a song born within us each time we open our hearts to God's presence. We have 'the song of Gods goodness, the hymn of the Almighty's grace, the melody of the Creator's mercy, the psalm of the Spirit's love. How can we keep from singing?

Brett Younger is pastor of Broadway Baptist Church in Fort Worth

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RUSSELL DILDAY: Baptists Today, yesterday and tomorow_60903

Posted: 6/010/03

RUSSELL DILDAY:
Baptists Today, yesterday and tomorow

Below is the text of a message delivered by Russell Dilday, former president of Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, upon his receipt of the Judson-Rice Award for leadership and integrity from Baptists Today April 25.

By Russell Dilday

I consider this recognition as immensely significant in part because of the other recipients: Jimmy Allen and Tony Campolo. To be included in that noteworthy duet is humbling.

Second, it is significant, too because of the heroic personalities for whom the award is named. Adoniram and Ann Judson and Luther Rice founded the modern missionary movement and brought together their scattered Baptist congregations into a cooperating denomination. The Judsons and Rice personify the core ingredients of what it means to be Baptist.

Third, the recognition comes from Baptists — my extended family. I know being a follower a Jesus — being a Christian — is the crucial identity, but what kind of Christian you are really matters.

Our Baptist identity, history, heritage, and convictions are very important to me and I know to you too.

BAPTIST ROOTS

When the Dilday family settled on the east banks of the Tennessee River in the early 1800s, they established The Baptist Church at Dilday’s Landing. The church site was covered by the Kentucky Lake, but you can still see the stone steps when the water is low. My great, great grandfather was the church clerk.

My grandparents and my parents were active Baptist believers. My wife Betty and her family have a long history with Dr. James Leavell and Dr. E.D. Head at First Baptist Church, Houston and Dr. Truett at Palacious Encampment on the Texas Coast. Our children and grandchildren continue that tradition.

And to top it off, a few weeks ago, because of research done by Baylor professor Frank Leavell and my sister Ann, I discovered that I am the great, great grandson by marriage of Noah T. Byars – Texas Patriot and Baptist pioneer. It was in Byars’ blacksmith shop at Washington on the Brazos that the Texas declaration of independence and the Constitution of the Republic of Texas were signed.

He served as Sam Houston’s official armorer, a hero of Texas Independence. But he also became a Baptist minister and missionary.

Noah T. Byars (my great, great grandfather by marriage), founded the First Baptist Churches of Waco, Corsicana, and Brownwood as well as 60 other churches in north Texas. He also organized a dozen associations including the one that became the Dallas Baptist Association.

He was on the small committee that organized Baylor University and was co-founder of Howard Payne University where I am completing my term as interim president.

So. Betty and I have deep Baptist roots, and therefore any recognition that comes from our Baptist family is meaningful to us .

Another reason this recognition is important to me is my high regard for Baptists Today — its work, its history all the way back to Walker Knight and SBC Today, its current staff, and the exceptional luminaries who serve with Chairman Jim McAfee. on the board.

This is one of those causes worth living for and giving for.

LOOKING BACK

The name of the news journal is especially enlightening: Baptists Today. It calls to mind the two other dimensions on either side of it: "Baptists Yesterday" and "Baptists Tomorrow." All three are important.

Twenty-five years ago, who could have imagined the Baptist scene today – this peculiar mixture of disappointments and exhilarating prospects? What a mess and what an opportunity!

We take great pride in Baptist men and women today – lay persons and ministers – who refuse to cower in the safety of a non-commitment that brags on the fact that it hasn’t taken sides.

We admire persons who with courage tempered by a Christ-like spirit do what they can to correctly define and defend authentic Baptist principles today. That’s what the Baptists Today organization is trying to do and all of us here are grateful.

What about "Baptists Yesterday?" No one wants to get bogged down in a nostalgic reflection that dwells in the past.

But the Bible says: "Remember your leaders, those who spoke to you the word of God. Consider the outcome of their lives and imitate their faith."

We must never forget our spiritual birthright — the Baptist heritage — because our history informs us who we are.

Tragically, there is an effort being made by some to rewrite our history. They want to erase the true Baptist vision and reshape it. Some have called them pseudo-Baptists, rogues inside the family who never knew or have forgotten what our true identity is and are distorting it.

Unless this effort is addressed, the species called Baptistus Authenticus is threatened with extinction and a new breed called Baptistus Counterfeitus will be grafted in its place.

My plea is for us "Baptists today" to help shape "Baptists tomorrow" by preserving the authentic heritage of "Baptists yesterday."

DISTINCTIVE MARKS

What are the distinctive historical marks of Baptists yesterday — Baptistus Authenticus?

Traditional Baptists share with most other evangelicals those core biblical beliefs of Creation, Trinitarian, Christology, Redemption, and those great Reformation doctrines Sola Scriptura and Justification by Faith. But there are other convictions that taken together are unique to true Baptists:

1. No Creed but the Bible (Some call us non-creedal but we’re not. We are one-creedal)

2. Believer’s baptism by immersion, a regenerate church membership

3. Symbolic ordinances

4. Security of the believer

5. Voluntary cooperation

6. Soul competency and the priesthood of each believer

7. Religious freedom, liberty of conscience and the separation of church & state

This individual freedom to respond to God through Christ without coercion is so central. Baptists treasure their freedom.

Paul said, "I was born free." Baptists were born free too. Individual liberty of conscience is deep in the genetic DNA of Baptistus Authenticus.

Unfortunately, these seven distinctive convictions are, as theologian Leo Garrett says, "threatened with serious attrition if not absolute extinction."

They are being challenged by another set of opinions from a group often labeled "fundamentalists" — or what Roger Olson calls "maximal conservatives." E.Y. Mullins called them "ultra brethren."

ELEVATED OPINIONS

Here are some of the alternative ideologies promoted in place of our historil Baptist distinctives:

1. An absolute form of Biblical inerrancy

2. Calvinism in its more extreme form

3. Pastor-centered authority

4. Male domination and female subjection

5. Pre-millennial dispensationalism

6. A "young earth" version of creationism

Olson, a theology professor at Baylor’s Truett Seminary, makes a helpful distinction between dogma, doctrines, and opinions:

Dogma, he says, comprises the great historical essentials of the faith upon which all evangelical Christians agree such as Creation, Redemption and the Trinity.

He defines doctrines as those convictions such as believer’s baptism by immersion, autonomy of the local church, once saved always saved.

They are important. We would die for them, but we don’t condemn those who don’t hold these views as being non-Christian.

Opinions, however, are those details about the end times, worship styles, the days of Creation, Calvinism vs. Arminianism and capital punishment. Baptists have always honored differences of opinion in these areas.

The trouble comes when a group elevates their opinions to the level of dogma and then demands everybody accept them or be excluded. The Baptist way has always been: "In essentials – unity; in non-essentials – liberty, and in all things – charity."

Rejecting the strengths of "Baptists yesterday," these revisers are trying to reshape "Baptists tomorrow" by minimizing our traditional beliefs and promoting their opinions as non-revisable dogma.

QUESTIONABLE METHODOLOGIES

It is not just their beliefs that are often alien to historic Baptist convictions, but their methodologies are questionable as well.

J.I. Packer, a well-known conservative Anglican scholar, has edited a book called Power Religion which is a critique denouncing this brand of fundamentalism. The book description of "Carnal Conservatism" sounds very familiar.

1. Authoritarian styles of pastoral leadership

2. Use of secular political strategies even though the Bible forbids the use of such weapons in Christian service (II Cor. 10:3-4, 6:7)

3. Fanning emotional fears by supposed conspiracy theories

4. Government entanglements in which the church is reduced to nothing more than another political special interest group

5. Using peer pressure to enforce conformity (ganging up, ostracizing and withholding rewards from those who don’t fall in line)

6. Total defeat of those who disagree — an ugly denominational version of ethnic cleansing.

Sounds all too familiar don’t they? Well let me leave you with one example of how this revision of our Baptists heritage is being carried out.

In a new Broadman & Holman book by Southern Seminary president Al Mohler, he criticizes E. Y. Mullins, one of Southern Baptists’ most respected theologians and the subject of my doctoral dissertation.

Mullins, a former president of Southern Seminary, was a definer and defender of traditional Baptist distinctives in the early 1900s. He believed — as most historic Baptists — in biblical authority, the priesthood of every believer, local church autonomy, separation of church and state, a regenerate church membership, and believer’s baptism.

He named "soul competency" as the basic Baptist distinctive on which most other distinctives were grounded. For Mullins, soul competency is not human self-sufficiency. It is the idea that every human being is free to respond to God directly through Christ without human mediators — a priest, a church, a creed, or a civil authority. It is indeed a priceless concept, distinctive to Baptist thought and practice.

But Mohler in a tragic misreading or an unfortunate distortion of his theology, blames E. Y. Mullins for "setting the stage for doctrinal ambiguity and theological minimalism." In other words, E. Y. Mullins is to blame for what Mohler believes is a drift towards theological liberalism in Baptist life.

Mohler calls Mullins’ emphasis on soul competency "an acid dissolving religious authority, congregationalism, confessionalism and mutual theological accountability."

But on the contrary, E.Y. Mullins is considered by most traditional Baptists to be an ideal example of Baptistus Authenticus. From 1899 to 1928 he served as seminary president under circumstances remarkably similar to those we face today.

He was involved with what has been called the "Modernist-Fundamentalist" controversy in the 1920s. He became a spokesman for what I like to call the "constructive conservative" faction, rejecting liberalism on the left with its lack of convictions, and rejecting fundamentalism on the right with its authoritarian legalism.

Mullins was neither a hardened traditionalists nor a faddish liberal, but a constructive conservative who sought to communicate the Christian faith in contemporary terms. He showed you can be conservative without being cranky.

‘A SMIDGEON MORE’

By the way, are you having trouble like I am with names for all the theological positions today — fundamentalist, conservative, moderate and liberal?

David Solomon, a Texan and a Baptist who is now teaching at the Center for Ethics and Culture at Notre Dame, said he had some friends who are "not liberal, but a smidgeon more than moderate."

Some of us have never been too fond of the term moderate, so I guess you could say that Baptists like Mullins — and like some of us — are not fundamentalist, but a smidgeon less than moderate.

Mullins spoke out intelligently against theological liberalism: naturalistic evolution, rationalistic higher criticism, and the social gospel. But on the other hand, he strongly opposed the legalistic, hard line extremism of the fundamentalists that he also saw as a serious threat to our Baptist heritage.

He objected when fundamentalists from the seminary board set up what he called "smelling committees" to periodically visit faculty members in their search for heresy. He openly worked toward the defeat of "radicals and extremists who want to put the thumb screws on everybody who does not agree in every detail with their statements of doctrine."

Mullins described the fundamentalists as "hyper-orthodox," "ultra-brethren" and "lacking in common sense."

In his ongoing conflict with fundamentalist leader T. T. Eaton, Mullins pointed out that he rejected both the "half Baptist" (or liberal) who had no convictions as well as the "Baptist and a half" (or fundamentalist) who could not tolerate any doctrinal differences.

By the way, Eaton countered Mullins’ challenge by saying he gloried in being a "Baptist and a half!"

AVOIDING EXTREMES

As a constructive conservative, Mullins faulted both fundamentalists and liberals for their extremism that led to name-calling rather than fruitful communication.

He represented the historical Baptist approach when he declared, "The really safe leaders of thought are between the extremes." Gordon Fee calls this position the "radical middle."

Mullins strongly repudiated creedalism. "No creed can be set up as final and authorit-ative apart from the scriptures," he said. "For Baptists, there is one authoritative source of religious truth and knowledge. It is to that source they look to in all matters relating to doctrine, to policy, to the ordinances, to worship, and to Christian living. That source is the Bible."

But Mullins made it clear that the Bible is authoritative only because it leads persons to God through Christ.

"The Scriptures do not and cannot take the place of Jesus Christ," he said. "We are not saved by belief in the Scriptures, but by a living faith in Christ.

"The authority of Scripture is that simply of an inspired literature which interprets a life. Christ as the Revealer of God and Redeemer of men is the seat of authority in religion and above and underneath and before the Bible. The Bible is the authoritative literature which leads us to Christ."

Mullins sought to avoid both extremes. He rejected the liberal position which makes the Bible little more than another ancient book, full of errors and contradictions, and not authoritative. On the other hand he rejected the fundamentalist tendency to elevate the Bible to a level it never claims for itself, in some cases to a position even above God himself.

With a voice that divided Baptists need to hear today, Mullins warned against the destructive nature of bitter denominational disputes with all the name-calling and pigeon-holing. He knew that divisiveness and loss of trust within the Baptist family diverts us from our main functions of evangelism and missions.

"I have no right to refuse to call a Baptist my brother merely because he does not happen to be my twin brother," Mullins reminded his fellow Baptists. "And I also maintain that another Baptist has no right to refuse to call me brother (and nag and torment me) because I am not his twin."

As a heroic representative of Baptists yesterday, I believe E.Y. Mullins is an example to follow as we look to the future. No wonder those who want to reshape the Baptist vision don’t pay much attention to him.

So my plea tonight is for us "Baptists today" to help shape "Baptists tomorrow" by preserving — like E.Y. Mullins — the authentic heritage of "Baptists yesterday."

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COMMENTARY: Father’s love_walton_60903

Posted: 6/12/03

COMMENTARY:
Father's love

By Rusty Walton

Brenda and I are having some trees removed from our yard. One of the big pine trees out back is infested with beetles. A couple of pileated woodpeckers (those big Woody Woodpecker types) have pecked off most of the tree’s bark in their never-ending search for insects and nesting sites. Dead limbs, pinecones and chips of decaying wood lie in a thickening mat over our usually well-manicured St. Augustine lawn. This tree is in the "dangerous" stage of deterioration, so hiring a professional to carefully remove it has become a necessity.

A smaller pine in the backyard and a little sweetgum tree next to our driveway also need to be removed. The pine tree is growing too close to the house. Its falling needles clog the gutters and downspouts, and in a few years any limbs that fall will likely drop onto the roof. Pine trees also are notorious lightning rods, and Mrs. Preacher says I attract enough lightning already.

The sweetgum tree is too close to the driveway. Sweetgum roots grow close to the surface, and in a couple of years, these roots will crack the concrete, causing extensive damage, demanding costly repairs. A wise homeowner will remove a sweetgum next to a driveway.

When we lived in North Texas, I never would have dreamed of cutting down even one tree, much less three. We built our house in Dallas in a pasture, and I planted the only trees on the lot. I watered those twigs every-other day for three months. I mulched and manicured and nurtured my baby trees for as long as we lived in our little house in the Windmill Hill subdivision, a bald knob void of any vegetation except Johnson grass and buffalo burr. We did not cut down trees on Windmill Hill. We venerated them.

You can imagine my emotions now as the chainsaws are roaring and the sawdust is flying. I keep thinking about our little house on the prairie and wondering what sort of sacrilege I am committing by removing these trees.

I think my feelings of uneasiness spring from something my father said to me 40 years ago.

We had been hunting all morning in a thickly wooded area near his old family home and decided to stop and rest and have a little lunch. Sitting on an aged log and snacking on Vienna sausage and saltine crackers, we could hear the distant sounds of a logging crew as they chewed up the woods.

For years, these Tunica Hills had been safe from loggers. The winding sandy creeks and step ravines were simply inaccessible. But new and better ways of logging had been discovered. We did not know it at the time, but this would be one of our last hunts in this beautiful place my dad loved so much. The loggers were scheduled here next.

Dad took a long drink from his favorite water bottle, an old hip flask once filled with something my father no longer drank. Almost in a sacred moment, in the softness of that forest cathedral, Dad whispered, "One day there won’t be any trees." Forty years ago, but I still remember.

Some things penetrate our souls more deeply than others, and I suppose my soul was touched that day in a way a 17-year-old could not fully comprehend. I saw in my father’s face the anguish of losing something he deeply loved.

Until that moment, I thought I loved those beautiful, wooded hills as much as my father loved them. Or perhaps I had never before really thought about my father’s love. But having seen it, even for that brief moment, I have never forgotten it.

In this unusual moment of personal reflection, I am increasingly aware that it is another Father’s love that, once seen, also can never be forgotten.

Rusty Walton is pastor of First Baptist Church in Conroe, Texas.

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‘Bringing Up Boys’ takes Dobson back to his roots_62303

Posted: 6/13/03

'Bringing Up Boys' takes
Dobson back to his roots

By Mark Wingfield

Managing Editor

At the apex of his career, James Dobson has returned to the communication medium that first made him one of the nation's foremost spokesmen for conservative Christian family values.

Dobson, founder of Focus on the Family and host of a daily radio program of the same name, has produced a new 11-part video series to be shown in churches and other group settings.

The series, “Bringing Up Boys,” harkens back to the 1970s, before the advent of video, when Dobson's message was projected via film in churches around the nation. That instructional film series, titled “Focus on the Family,” put the child psychologist on the map and sparked the dawn of a different style of family ministry in many evangelical churches. More than 70 million people viewed that series in church fellowship halls, sanctuaries and Sunday School rooms.

The new video series is based on a book also titled “Bringing Up Boys,” a book Dobson labels the “fastest-selling” of his 19 published titles.

In promotional comments released by Focus on the Family, Dobson described his first film series as “the booster rocket that put Focus on the Family into orbit.”

The new video series has that same energy, he said, explaining, “I worked as hard on this project as anything I've ever done.”

Over the past 30 years, Dobson discovered radio to be a more effective means than film of getting his message out on a daily basis. His radio programs now are heard by 200 million people on 3,000 stations in North America and 3,300 overseas.

The video series, however, presents a medium suitable for group interaction and discussion, he said.

“The purpose for this is to get neighborhoods together that don't know these Christian principles,” he explained. “It's very soft-sell so it doesn't offend people who don't know these principles of the faith.”

More liberal-minded critics of Dobson and Focus on the Family aren't likely to find the videos soft-sell, however, as he places the blame for troubles raising boys today on feminists, liberals and homosexual activists.

The problem parents face in raising boys, Dobson said, is “they don't know what it means to be a boy, and they certainly don't know what it means to be a man. Everything masculine has been vilified.”

That vilification, he said, has come from feminists who hate men and from others who wrongly have taught that boys and girls should behave similarly.

“Masculinity was God's design,” Dobson explained in the publicity materials. “Males and females are different. They are intended to be different.”

In the publicity and in the video series, Dobson contends feminists have for the last 30 years attempted to make men “look like little boys, to make them look foolish.”

As evidence, he points to common themes in television commercials and TV sitcoms.

Christian parents, he contends, must hold up the model of masculinity as a worthy goal and stop trying to make boys behave like girls.

God has created boys to be more rambunctious and physical than girls, and nothing parents do can change that internal yearning, he said.

“In the late '60s, a really goofy idea came along, a really crazy idea, and it was the notion that males and females are identical except for the ability to bear children and that boys and girls are different only to the degree to which they've been raised differently,” Dobson says in the first video.

However, he adds, “The people who were behind this movement in telling parents how to raise their kids were not married, were not mothers, had never raised kids, didn't like men and had no academic training whatsoever and had no basis on which to tell parents how to raise kids.”

This philosophy permeated schools with the notion that “men are kind of goofy, so we need to fix boys while we can,” he says.

New medical technology, however, should end the argument forever, Dobson says, explaining that new imaging techniques demonstrate that “male brains are different from female brains” and testosterone makes the difference.

Christians must reclaim the uniqueness of maleness because men and boys are in serious trouble today, Dobson contends.

“When compared to girls, boys are three times more likely to be on drugs, four times more likely to be emotionally disturbed, six times more likely to have learning problems, 12 times more likely to murder someone,” Dobson reports on the video. “Four of five suicides are boys.”

Further, “boys are not linking in to life in quite the same way as girls,” he adds, reporting, for example, that 59 percent of graduate students are women.”

The causes of today's problems with boys are many, Dobson admits, but he finds the root of the evil in “the disintegration of the family.”

Two of the 11 videos deal with homosexuality, how it impacts males and how parents can inoculate their children from becoming homosexuals.

Dobson and three guest speakers on the homosexuality segments advocate that homosexuality is caused by nurture, not nature. The two most common ingredients in the backgrounds of homosexual men, they contend, are fathers who were either distant or critical.

Other segments of the video series leave behind controversial topics and engage in the bread-and-butter parenting advice format that has built Dobson's audience from the start. Two of the 11 segments feature Dobson fielding questions from parents and grandparents in a studio audience. One segment includes humorous interviews with a sampling of young boys.

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CYBERCOLUMN: Higher ground_vancleve_60903

Posted 6/17/03

CYBERCOLUMN:
Higher ground

By Donna Van Cleve

Train up a child in the way he should go…

A friend once told me he was going to let his children choose what to believe about God when they got older. I wonder if he applied that same philosophy to other important areas of his children’s lives. Did he leave it up to his children to discover proper nutrition through the years, assuming they would eventually learn to make the right choices in eating balanced meals? Did he let his children choose their own bedtimes? Did he allow his children to decide whether they wanted an education or not? And they chose not, did he allow them to stay home?

Donna Van Cleve

Did he sit back and say absolutely nothing about his children playing Little League baseball and later, sports in school? Did he never take them to games or watch sports on television with his children or pitch the ball with them out in the yard to influence them in any way about their choosing to participate in sports? Or did he insist they participate because he knew they would learn lessons they’d never learn in the classroom? Or did he insist they play so it would give him the opportunity to relive his glory days through them? Or on the other hand, would his expectations of his child’s athletic capabilities unrealistically exceed his own memories and experiences?

If sports were a religion, and our arenas, stadiums and golf courses were churches, our society would have the most active, most dedicated, most faithfully attended churches in the world. The Golden Rule would state, Do unto the other team before they do unto you, and glory and honor would come only from winning at any cost. We’ve taught our children well about the importance of sports in our lives, even now scheduling local sports events on Sundays. Our silence and lack of resistance to this speaks volumes to our children about which is more important to us.

People are more than physical and intellectual beings. We each have a spiritual facet as well, but unfortunately that is the most neglected part of us. For the first twenty years of our children’s lives, we make every effort for them to develop their minds by sending them to school and encouraging their learning at every opportunity. At earlier and earlier ages we’re training our children physically and having them compete individually or on teams. From every source imaginable, pictures of finely toned bodies of physical perfection are exposed to our children, who often times assume that unrealistic image is expected of them as well.

If a parent left all the decisions about nutrition and education up to a child, most of us would think the parent was neglecting and abusing that child. But we don’t give spiritual neglect a second thought, even though the lack of character and honor among people today is screaming the result of our society’s neglect in developing our spiritual natures.

God created a spiritual need in all of us that He intended for us to fill with a relationship with himself through Christ. And if people do not know God, they will spend a lifetime searching to fill that void by whatever means possible: material possessions, addictions, obsessions, self-honor and praise, cults, fame, and so on.

Our children know what’s important to us by watching our actions. My friend didn’t realize it, but in choosing to let his own children make up their minds about God later on, he had already taught his children a monumental lesson about his own lack of faith and commitment to God.

…and when he is old, he will not depart from it.